That's interesting. Has your friend ever said what they do when they recognize an essay? Is that kid immediately disqualified, or have they let in kids who have done that if their numbers are high enough? |
Our student did visit and have an interview. Hopefully that was sufficient to show interest. He missed the "optional" essay email and deadline because I think they only gave him a week or so to complete it, during a busy time in January, and he hadn't been expecting it. We'll see what happens. |
They sent that email multiple times between December and early Feb, if I recall. |
We live in an advanced country. We expect our kids to be normal and be kids. Normal kids shouldn't penalized. |
100% agree. And these personal thoughftful essays - while they are flawed - are a way to really figure out who these kids are and what type of impact they might have on campus. Scores and grades dont tell you that. You need a kid who stands out from the crowd or the field. Otherwise everyone just blends together like a giant group of vanilla boring kids. The most interesting candidates are the ones who have so much more going for them than a 4.0uw, high rigor, and a 36 ACT. |
Every single kid is different and unique Examples of kids who stand out would be winning national hacker competition, international science olympiad, national art competition, along those lines. |
I can think of a lot more. You have a very narrow view of “different and unique” - I solely focusing on top awards. That is not how AO see this question. Sure, a few of these award winner kids might be what they are looking for but not all of them. . |
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Kids who win national awards are not the only kids who stand out.
Our private school College Counselor has shown us many many more successful candidates without any nationally recognized awards…. but usually a very niche type of major or interest. |
I said every kid is different and unique. The other person implied most kids are boring. |
Assuming grades/scores are there, niche interest is key, along with ability to show how kid will make an impact at that school. Once on campus. |
WTF that's like saying White Lives Matter. Listen to yourself. Brown is actively recruiting underprivileged but academically qualified students, as are all the Ivies. They're not taking any places away from your entitled princess. |
Of course All Lives Matter WTF. It's a zero sum game. Being normal shouldn’t be penalized. |
NP. OMG, what a blockhead. PP's point is that it's a good thing your kid doesn't need any additional consideration because they didn't have the adversity. No one is "penalizing" your kid when they give consideration to a kid who has endured real hardship. PP used that phrase because no one needs to actively say White Lives Matter because that is the default. No one is saying that other lives matter less when the say BLM, btw. And being "normal" is NOT "penalized." Your kid can find plenty to write about. My "normal " kid wrote about music. Got into several T15. Work on your empathy. Have some respect and compassion for a kid who has overcome or is working through adversity. Be thankful your kid doesn't have to go through that. And get it through your thick skull that that does nothing to disadvantage or penalize your kid. Good grief. |
There's quite a lot of college email that's going into spam. Need to stay on top of both the inbox and spam folders, and add colleges to the safe list, to catch these emails. |
My family is Asian immigrants. My parents didn't speak English and were poor. I couldn't go to a dentist when my tooth was hurting. I had to figure out everything by myself. I went to VT and turned out fine. I didn't need any extra credit or empathy from anyone. I've worked hard and now a middle class. Sorry the girl in the example had hardship. Great for her she turned out normal not doing drugs or anything like that. That doesn't warrant significant extra credit in admissions to academic institutions. The social service and should have proved necessary assist. I'm absolute glad my tax is used for that. Harvard thought they could discriminate against Asians. We need better standards and rules. |