They are not mutually exclusive. Why do people move here but insist on living in a cultural bubble? Utah Mormons are also pretty insufferable in this regard--they drink tons of soda but arent allowed to have coffee, tea or alcohol. My grandparents entertained a lot and had a small locked liquor cabinet. I think some posters here are imagining a wine cellar or large armoir full of booze. Most people's "cabinet" is just a shelf. |
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Kid is 16
Beer is in the fridge Liquor is in the pantry We don't lock up anything, I trust they won't and I also know I'd be the first to smell it or know they were intoxicated. We don't have a basement, there's nowhere to hide in our mid century bungalow. |
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Not yet but we have been considering it.
I'm not too worried about my kids but I don't want to put them in a situation where they have to police other kids. |
| We didn't and my now adult kids admit to taking it and adding water on occasion. We never really noticed because we don't drink much. Jokes on the younger kid - he was stealing already watered down vodka. These were both "good" kids and on a short leash. But in retrospect we should have been more careful. |
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I haven't yet. Not all concerned about my 15 year old. The 12 year old will be another story!
My parents had a stash of gifted liquor in our dark 1700's basement growing up. Nobody went down there except me when I wanted to snag a bottle. |
+1 This. I'm pretty sure my kid will ask when she decides she wants to have a taste of something. But other friends will think they are pulling a fast one and try to sneak some. |
| We don’t keep booze in the house but if we did, I’d lock it up/hide it. Even if you don’t think your kid would take it, a friend might. My best friend had a bottle of booze and a bottle of adderall disappear and it was her daughters friend, at the end of freshman year |
Good point on keeping medications hidden, too. That happened to a friend of mine as well, when a kid who came over for group project homework snagged stuff out of their medicine cabinet. |