Parent plus are part of the federal student loan program. If they were just private loans, they would be dischargale and much harder to get |
Even as Top students, there is a good chance your kids would not have even gotten into a T20 school---acceptance rates are single digits for most. Majority get REJECTED. And your accountant is right, taking PPL would not be smart. Your kids are smart, they got a great education and will do just fine in life. Once you realize it's much better to graduate debt free or at most with the $27K of student loans, you can be much happier in life. Your life is not over if you can't attend a T20 school---fact is majority of top students will be turned away even if they are full pay. Too many smart kids, not enough spaces. But there are plenty in the 30-60 range that give great merit and if your kids had wanted a smaller private school, they could have chased merit and likely found a great school that cost same or less than your instate schools. |
Your math is terrible...just GDS, Sidwell, STA and Maret have over 2,000 kids just in HS. Add in Potomac, Bullis, St Andrews, Episcopal, Flint Hill, Holton Arms, NCS...I have to be missing probably 5+ other schools. Sure...there are kids with aid, though 1/3 are not receiving a full tuition break...I think the average aid is like $15k per year...again only for the 1/3 of the kids getting any aid. Maybe you are being literal in how many kids attend schools with $50k+ tuitions...but I guess I don't see much difference is tuition is $55k or $48k in terms of the point you are trying to make. |
Private loans are as easy to get & and are very, very difficult to discharge. Ex. Sallie Mae, College Avenue, Discover student loans. People choose PPLs over private loans because PPLs have more favorable repayment plans. |
+1 Besides, given the privilege of growing up wealthy, those kids attending H/Y/P are not any less smart---they started their education on 2nd base in preschool and have grown up in a home that values education and they have had the best available to them since birth. The difference is more people prepare to go to college now. When my parents were kids, women did not really go to college (at least not lower or middle income---that was reserved for the wealthy). Many men did not go to college either---they went staight to work in the factory/store/farm/whatever their parents and uncles worked in their town. Now many more kids grow up expecting to attend college. This means there are more kids applying for not as many more spots....H/Y/P have not doubled their class size in the last 30 years, they just have triple the number of students applying. |
Lol? You think everyone going to Big State U across the country is happy about it? |
There ideally should be a limit on PPL for undergrad. If people are not able to save for $20-30K/year for their kid to attend college, it's not likely they are really qualified to take out loans for that amount at age 50. So we shouldn't give the loans in the first place for undergrad (grad is different---med school/dental school is expensive and we need doctors who are not wealthy) Just like I cannot get a mortgage for $1.5M for a house if I only make $200K/year, most of these parents should not be allowed to take $200K in PPL with their income and their inability to save over the past 18 years for college. So if a student is only allowed $27K over the 4 years---which is reasonable---most should be able to pay those back in 10 years--just keep living frugally for 4-5 years. There should be a cap of maybe $20K/year for PPL for a family. Since people are too dumb to restrain themselves and not get into massive debt, we need a plan in place that wont allow them to do that. It's ridiculous when there are plenty of schools that are affordable (defined by $25-30K/year) and with searching you can find lower with good merit awards to reduce the cost. However, it is never smart to pay full price at any school (including T20) if you don't have most of it already saved/cannot cash flow it. If your kid can get into a T20, they can find a school somewhere for $20-30K/year, probably even less if you want less debt. |
+1000 Nothing new here. Smart parents will send their kids to a college they can AFFORD with minimal debt. Their kids will go far for many reasons. Plenty of highly successful people do NOT attend a T20 school for undergrad. Just look around you. |
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And they do NOT need to. There are plenty of good schools (not bottom of the barrel like that list) that can be affordable. Attending your in-state honors program is not a huge step down from a T20---your kid will be surrounded by very smart kids, likely many who also are smart enough to realize no college is worth massive debt. |
I agree 100%. Schools would never agree to your proposal because it would turn the spigot of nearly infinite, consequence-free money off. Revenue would drop like a hot potato. |
Everyone loves to say they are a "donut hole" family which is why they aren't applying to the top private schools. The reality is that the Top 15 schools give varying amounts of aid even for families earning as much as $300k per year (with only one kid in college...aid goes up a bunch if you have two)...so much so that a VA resident with that income accepted at a top school has a total COA not much different than in-state UVA for engineering or business. It is all the other private schools that won't or can't play the merit game that provide nothing...I think Tulane is an example of a school that would give a $300k HHI student $0 and I don't think plays the merit game much. The very top schools with huge endowments continue to see applications from folks from a variety of backgrounds because even relatively high HHI families get some aid. |
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The average student loan debt at Pitt in 2019 was $40,000, so it’s not just privates with these issues. |
Huge difference---the Big State U are actually great schools offering a good education. That list is bottom of the barrel, barely accredited colleges. IN my state there are 2 extremely easy to get into State schools (as our state flagship is challenging for anything STEM especially) that cost only $25-30K all in. If your kid is a good student, the will easily get $4-8K merit (my 25 ACT, 3.5UW got 5K at both as an indicator). There are another 3 universities a step/tier below that that are similar priced, where I'm told you can get more merit if a good student (think avg gpa is 3.0 UW---so your 3.8UW kid can get a full tuition award fairly easily). These can be affordable for most. You will get a great education. What you won't get is massive debt. Join the honors program at any of these schools and you will be able to find your cohorts/like minded students. |