child getting Cs and Ds as new student in MS, asked to seek better fit for HS?

[Anonymous]

Just find a school where your kids are happy... life's too short and he or she will be just fine

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My oldest DS started at a Big 3 in middle school and got mostly Bs, with some Cs. We asked him if he wanted to leave for another school or public, but he wanted to stay. His grades improved significantly in high school and he ended up at an Ivy for college and law school. All's well that ends well? Maybe, but the middle school teachers and administrators were useless and the upper school not much better. Basically, our kid clawed his way out of the academic hole without any support. We sent our younger child to a non-Big 3, which was a totally different experience -- teachers were kind, encouraging and had lots of strategies to offer when our child needed support. College placement was also excellent and DC is now a thriving college sophomore. Bottom line for us: Big 3, schmig 3.

Same thing for my DD- but was getting Ds + 1 F. Ended up at HYP for undergrad + Stanford MBA.

Varsity Blues days are over.

[Anonymous]

If your child is in 6th I'd get an educational eval and hire a lot of tutors to start. If your child continues to struggle at the end of the year and into 7th then I'd seriously start looking for other schools including possibly starting a new school in 8th.

A lot of kids have difficulty in middle school but they get better study habits within a year or two. It's hard to say now whether your child actually needs a new school.

DD has two friends who left after 8th from a Big 3 for other schools that are academically less pressure filled. They are both doing well last we heard.