No, you ask which should be the priority. That said, for clarity, if I send something that truly needs to be a priority to someone I know is working on other time-sensitive things, I say so. "Please make this your priority over xyz. If this is a problem please let me know." |
"Can we get the check please, asap" vs "can we get the check, please, when you get a chance". For me, ASAP means now, because even though I might be doing something else more important, the word "possible" makes me doit, because it is possible to get them the check before the other important things.
But also 'asap' and 'now' mean now in my culture, not like in 2 hours to 2 days for my friend. We laugh about it all the time. |
Op needs to apologize to the coworker asap. Ordering someone to do something asap, the person asking for clarification on prioritizing work (because the asap made no usage sense), and the being told a made up definition via Op arguing is NOT A GOOD LOOK. At a minimum. You prob dropped 30 In points to whomever in the room heard you arguing that ASAP means whenever. |
OP are you convinced yet? |
He’s probably still stewing about the “attitude” that the employee had, the absolute nerve to ask him to clarify the conflicting priorities. |
ASAP definitely conveys immediacy/urgency and is lazy. Be specific: I need this by COB Monday. Please have it done by the end of the week. Etc. |
Exactly. Using ASAP and then acting like it wasn’t to be treated as urgent is classic manager gaslighting. Do better, OP. |
This is the dumbest thing I've read all week. ASAP means do it right away. It's the non medical equivalent of stat. |
Being both this ignorant and this steadfast in your ignorance does not bode well for your long term career. |
+1 to everybody except OP.
It is a polite way to say now and you probably meant to convey “at your earliest possible convenience.” It’s really OK that you didn’t understand this. We are human and learn something new every day. I’m assuming you are open to learning and accepting this since you asked this for him. Good luck and I hope you enjoy your day ASAP. ![]() |
And not everyone works in an office that spans multiple time zones? I never have, and so I'd only add the time zone when I am communicating with someone from outside my org who is in a different time zone. |
Of course, not. Since it's not unanimous, with him as the exception, it's OK to define ASAP as "when I get around to do it." |
+1 |
When someone says they need it ASAP I read it as drop whatever I'm doing and do that. |
ASAP means it's urgent, do it right away. |