And the worst part is those parents just accuse you of being bitter and sour grapes when they really have no clue. |
What exactly are you expecting from high school sports? The coaches all have day jobs and are basically volunteering so kids and the school can have teams. If they were professional coaches they wouldn’t be teaching in high school or coaching HS sports. Outside of football and basketball, high school sports are rec leagues. Let the kids have some fun playing and let the parents enjoy watching. Not everything needs to be about sucking all the fun out to win meaningless games. Do you also spend time at schools and criticize how kids are organizing and performing during recess and PE? |
Just don't say that it isn't "political" when people tell you that the best team or lineup is not actually being rostered or even selected. And don't get upset when people tell you that the product on the field often times sucks. |
Seniors pick the team, coaches do what they say |
Coaches will select teams that will give the school the highest chance to win. It’s not a conspiracy if a player doesn’t make the team |
| A lot of them do a crappy job in selection as evidenced by results.. |
The problem is the coaches usually suck. |
I’m not the one that suggested it isn’t political. Of course it is political. Most everything in this world is political. Very few places that are a pure, perfect meritocracy (maybe professional sports?). That’s not exactly a hot take you have. Favorites, connections, biases come into play everywhere why would kids sports be any different? |
Translated, “me or my kid didn’t make the HS team, so this is my defense mechanism.” Or, possibly, “I am a travel coach and want you to realize that the money you pay me is well spent.” |
It’s just sad for the kids involved to not be selected for a school team especially if they chose a school in part to play for the team. Politics suck at every level-good life lesson or no.. |
That’s what should happen. Outside variables can play a role |
Well someone needs to be cut either way so it’s the same number of sad kids not making it no matter how teams are formed. Who chooses a high school for the soccer team? Don’t you just attend the school that is zoned for your neighborhood? Unless you are talking about private schools in which case it still seems like a bad reason to choose a school just for the team. |
+1 Choose schools for academics |
WELL...... does she expect her players to switch to the new club now!!?? |
| ^ who is “she”? |