Ex wife with GPS tracking device on son during my parenting time

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:“Lose” the trackers every time. That’ll get expensive real quick.

Apple Air Tags are like $20 a pop.

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Anonymous wrote:Want to drive him nuts?

Hire a private detective firm to surveillance him for a day or even part of a day once or twice a month. Tell them you want it obvious.

I would also find each tracker and put it in a different place (dog collar, friends house, dive bar) but I’m petty.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s more about control. He hid these on me when we were married and filmed me when I was at home alone. I never even came close to cheating it was just a control thing.

Really not cool. Aren't you concerned he could escalate into violence, potentially?

Yes, but what can I do? He pulled a knife on me in the past and I was not believed in court. He's a smarmy liar and stops at nothing to get his way.

This sounds fake.

No, it sounds real. One in four women are abused physically. Numbers go up if you include controlling behaviors and mental abuse.

Every women and young women should read Lundy Bancroft’s books, particularly “Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Controlling and Abusive Men”. Bancroft worked with abusive men for 15 years and shares what he learned from them. Helps you see the red flags and learn to listen to your gut.

Not discounting this for women but there is a significant amount of abuse against men that goes unreported. more than 90% of men never mentions this to anyone due to shame and it is coming out a lot these days during metal health studies.

Start your own damn thread about this, if you care so much. But you won’t—you just want to derail this one.

[Anonymous]

It’s illegal everywhere.

Talk to your lawyer. And document when you find a device, and turn it off.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s more about control. He hid these on me when we were married and filmed me when I was at home alone. I never even came close to cheating it was just a control thing.

Really not cool. Aren't you concerned he could escalate into violence, potentially?

Yes, but what can I do? He pulled a knife on me in the past and I was not believed in court. He's a smarmy liar and stops at nothing to get his way.

This sounds fake.

No, it sounds real. One in four women are abused physically. Numbers go up if you include controlling behaviors and mental abuse.

Every women and young women should read Lundy Bancroft’s books, particularly “Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Controlling and Abusive Men”. Bancroft worked with abusive men for 15 years and shares what he learned from them. Helps you see the red flags and learn to listen to your gut.

Not discounting this for women but there is a significant amount of abuse against men that goes unreported. more than 90% of men never mentions this to anyone due to shame and it is coming out a lot these days during metal health studies.

Start your own damn thread about this, if you care so much. But you won’t—you just want to derail this one.

No need to overreact. Anyone could go through mental and physical pain and there are a lot of men that struggle through difficult and abusive relationships and more than 90% of it don't get reported. Look at the stats and also why suicide rate is so high with men.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s more about control. He hid these on me when we were married and filmed me when I was at home alone. I never even came close to cheating it was just a control thing.

Really not cool. Aren't you concerned he could escalate into violence, potentially?

Yes, but what can I do? He pulled a knife on me in the past and I was not believed in court. He's a smarmy liar and stops at nothing to get his way.

This sounds fake.

No, it sounds real. One in four women are abused physically. Numbers go up if you include controlling behaviors and mental abuse.

Every women and young women should read Lundy Bancroft’s books, particularly “Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Controlling and Abusive Men”. Bancroft worked with abusive men for 15 years and shares what he learned from them. Helps you see the red flags and learn to listen to your gut.

Not discounting this for women but there is a significant amount of abuse against men that goes unreported. more than 90% of men never mentions this to anyone due to shame and it is coming out a lot these days during metal health studies.

Start your own damn thread about this, if you care so much. But you won’t—you just want to derail this one.

No need to overreact. Anyone could go through mental and physical pain and there are a lot of men that struggle through difficult and abusive relationships and more than 90% of it don't get reported. Look at the stats and also why suicide rate is so high with men.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s more about control. He hid these on me when we were married and filmed me when I was at home alone. I never even came close to cheating it was just a control thing.

Really not cool. Aren't you concerned he could escalate into violence, potentially?

Yes, but what can I do? He pulled a knife on me in the past and I was not believed in court. He's a smarmy liar and stops at nothing to get his way.

This sounds fake.

No, it sounds real. One in four women are abused physically. Numbers go up if you include controlling behaviors and mental abuse.

Every women and young women should read Lundy Bancroft’s books, particularly “Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Controlling and Abusive Men”. Bancroft worked with abusive men for 15 years and shares what he learned from them. Helps you see the red flags and learn to listen to your gut.

Not discounting this for women but there is a significant amount of abuse against men that goes unreported. more than 90% of men never mentions this to anyone due to shame and it is coming out a lot these days during metal health studies.

Start your own damn thread about this, if you care so much. But you won’t—you just want to derail this one.

No need to overreact. Anyone could go through mental and physical pain and there are a lot of men that struggle through difficult and abusive relationships and more than 90% of it don't get reported. Look at the stats and also why suicide rate is so high with men.

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Some of the men and groups are open about discussing this. Military spouses that are men also face a good amount of abuse and don't report.

[Anonymous]

Make sure your child isn’t carrying around a favorite toy or blanket (that could secretly contain a tracker). Id get head to toe (including shoes) different wardrobe for him to wear when with you.

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He may well have hid a tracker on your car already.

[Anonymous]

Take everything and change it over when at home during every pickup. Drop the tags, when you find them, into a metal container at home, with a lid.