+ a million Why would you test a kid for the very slightest hint of a symptom? I wish the other parents at my kids' school would stop testing so much, because *that* is what causes "weeks in quarantine", usually for kids who aren't even sick. |
Then frankly, you should go back to sheltering in place at home. Finding out that your kid has covid when he’s mostly likely already exposed your entire family, isn’t going to keep you “safe.” |
Our behavior now is shaping our future. Your choices are immoral to many, but the people who may find it most repugnant in the future are your own children. Knowingly letting them potentially spread a deadly virus is far from maternal, and may come back to bite you. I am sure you are convinced you are immune from such reproach and just being "pragmatic". Insufferable. |
Way to completely gloss over the fact that they are efficient vectors. https://www.forbes.com/sites/williamhaseltine/2021/10/21/study-finds-children-to-be-vectors-of-covid-19-and-emerging-variants/?sh=792955351819 |
We got a call from my kids school that my child had a headache. Just a headache no other symptoms and were told a negative covid test was required to return. I thought the same thing why am I covid testing for a headache that had resolved itself by the time we had gotten home. Tested both the child with headache and sibling (same school) and both were positive. My entire home except for my youngest tested positive. We would have never known. |
Because they are being responsible. Sorry that's such a foreign concept to you. |
Once again, COVID is still in pandemic state, not endemic. Words have meanings. When it does become endemic, the actual experts will let you know. |
WTAF? You people are fcked up. |
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I can't believe people are willing to gamble with other people's health just because their kids don't feel too badly. It is so easy to pass on if a kid has symptoms, even if they are minor.
I have been one of the fairly relaxed ones a lot of people here would hate. We socialized a lot during the first year of this. I have almost given up masking entirely. But we got vaxxed the first day we were eligible and I have tested my kid and myself three times for minor symptoms because I do not want to be the one responsible for KNOWINGLY spreading a disease that could kill. Same as when we have strep or the flu or a stomach virus, even if they aren't deadly. Be humans, please. |
Nope. I'm not testing my kids for every minor symptom they might show. |
So you would be fine if my kid came over to play at your house if they just had a minor symptom? If it turned out to be covid, I assume you wouldn’t be mad at all about that then… |
No, I genuinely wouldn't. My kids have been doing playdates and sports for over a year. The virus cannot be contained. It'll still be spreading in 2022, 2023, and beyond. Perhaps the Pfizer pill takes the edge off disease, but it's still going to be spreading. |
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OP here: I really wish this hadn't turned into an argument. There is zero need for folks to get upset over my individual choice to test. Does it make you feel better to get upset at me? What i chose to do doesn't impact you at all. It doesn't matter that my kid isn't sick or feels fine. I would keep him home if he felt fine but had the flu too (or any number of other illnesses).
Anyway, we are ALL positive (the four of us). I am glad we tested because now I won't be attending the birthday of my husband's 80 year old uncle and hopefully we protected my son's best friend's brother who has a heart defect and just spent a week in the hospital for the flu. And now we won't be exposing my MIL who just lost her husband last month and is high risk herself. I don't really care to hear any comments about how we are stupid for testing. |
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Your actions make them self-aware of their own irresponsibility. And they can’t handle that cognitive dissonance, so the knives come out. Classic psychological response and coping mechanism. |