Why D1 if the school is only so so?

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Anonymous wrote:1. Get a full ride to a “crappy college”
2. Graduate debt free and become an Officer in the Military
3. Get trained and discharged at 26 years of age
4. Save the GI bill for your kid
5. Get hired at civilian job
6. Hire Harvard grad at less pay to do your job
7. Take naps

That’s my advice.

Suit yourself. Mine to going to get the highest level education she can. You only get one trip though college so put quality stuff into your brain. No one can take it away..

They will make a good worker.

Very good. Ask any coach she has ever had. Hardest worker. Always wanting to improve and do better and learn more. She will thrive with a academic challenge. She going to get an awesome education and hopefully get to the grad school where she has set her sights .

Good for her. Many of us want more.

But that is the point. Why do so many not want more education as opposed to more money.? To me, the education is more valuable than the tuition aid.

I am just talking about families that have resources for tuition.

You have no idea what their career goals are. If a kid isn't planning on going to Grad school the undergrad school just doesn't matter that much. Your career track and salary are what they are. If a kid wants to be a teacher does the undergrad school matter that much? Would a kid get a better teaching job out of Harvard than State U?

And second, why do you care why people make the decisions they make?

It's a discussion forum. The point is to discuss. We have different outlooks. Oh well.

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Anonymous wrote:How old is your kid that you are currently gunning for a pro career and s/he isn’t in high school yet? Is this typical? Not snarky - just curious.

I think it is typical.

Soccer is a young man's game. Many kids get signed by the time they're 16 or 17. If you're 19 or 20 and you haven't been signed to a contract you are facing very long odds against success.

And it's pretty obvious by 13 or 14 which kids have any sort of chance of making it, and - more to the point - if the kid hasn't set himself the goal by this point, he's not going to put in the work necessary to make it.

We could have a separate discussion about whether chasing such a dream is sensible or realistic - but if that is the dream then it starts before high school or probably not at all.

I am the poster that the question was directed at and what the above says seems to make sense because I have also been curious too, when other parents knew their kid had procareer potential. I have a few kids and I can only say that about one kid who is currently pre-ECNL age. He has the skills, athleticism, motivation (playing soccer is what makes him happiest at the moment), and discipline (perfectionist, practices on his own, always eager to do and learn more). He could dribble and control the ball very well before he was 2, almost like an instinct. He also has soccer IQ which he uses effectively as part of a team. And yes, he's very good according to coaches, teammates, other soccer parents, etc. We assess every year whether he has the same interest and motivation because I can't imagine going through travel soccer and all this stuff unless my kid was already talented and had the motivation and discipline to keep on going. As to my point in a previous post, it definitely isn't worth it just for a college scholarship.

So in the major European leagues they sign kids to their YDS at 16. That is the first make or break year. The kids signed minimally have to be extremely good athletes- speed and quickness. I have seen two pro athletes at the high school level. It was as like men playing with boys. They were so athletically better vs everyone else they could play at 50-75% and still be the dominant player. They did not work at it or have a a high skill level in high school. If you do not have the athleticism all the work, skill, drive, soccer iq, etc does not matter.

I definitely agree with the athleticism part, I think that's something a kid is just born with and no amount of training is going to give a child athleticism. I included that above as one of the factors we saw in our kid. We've had him try other sports too and he's caught on to all of them pretty quick but his interest stays with soccer.

I read a stat in an article that said 80% of 16 year olds playing in European pro academies are out of professional soccer by age 21. Even if you're good, it's not enough. You have to be the .001% to make it.

We've told him those stats. I figured we'd do all we can to help him as parents get into an academy as a teenager and what he does afterwards is up to him. Hey, at 21, if he's really done with college, he can go to college as he's promised me he would. FWIW, we are trying to raise him to be a well rounded person with other interests. He is a straight A student so I'm sure he'll develop academic and other non-soccer career goals as well.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Get a full ride to a “crappy college”
2. Graduate debt free and become an Officer in the Military
3. Get trained and discharged at 26 years of age
4. Save the GI bill for your kid
5. Get hired at civilian job
6. Hire Harvard grad at less pay to do your job
7. Take naps

That’s my advice.

Suit yourself. Mine to going to get the highest level education she can. You only get one trip though college so put quality stuff into your brain. No one can take it away..

They will make a good worker.

Very good. Ask any coach she has ever had. Hardest worker. Always wanting to improve and do better and learn more. She will thrive with a academic challenge. She going to get an awesome education and hopefully get to the grad school where she has set her sights .

Good for her. Many of us want more.

But that is the point. Why do so many not want more education as opposed to more money.? To me, the education is more valuable than the tuition aid.

I am just talking about families that have resources for tuition.

Because education from a book and a lecturer is a slim myopic limited education.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Get a full ride to a “crappy college”
2. Graduate debt free and become an Officer in the Military
3. Get trained and discharged at 26 years of age
4. Save the GI bill for your kid
5. Get hired at civilian job
6. Hire Harvard grad at less pay to do your job
7. Take naps

That’s my advice.

Suit yourself. Mine to going to get the highest level education she can. You only get one trip though college so put quality stuff into your brain. No one can take it away..

They will make a good worker.

Very good. Ask any coach she has ever had. Hardest worker. Always wanting to improve and do better and learn more. She will thrive with a academic challenge. She going to get an awesome education and hopefully get to the grad school where she has set her sights .

Good for her. Many of us want more.

But that is the point. Why do so many not want more education as opposed to more money.? To me, the education is more valuable than the tuition aid.

I am just talking about families that have resources for tuition.

Because education from a book and a lecturer is a slim myopic limited education.

Ummm. We are transmitting information via human language right this very moment but ok.

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Anonymous wrote:So basically if it is to have college paid for, even partially, then it is a job for the student.

Yes - at that point the kid is on a pro contract - they are getting f paid for their service.

But what comes with that?

1. Team bonding
2. Team workouts
3. Team meals
4. Team travel
5. Support network
6. Team study hall
7. Team tutors
8. Less financial hardships
9. Competition
10. Memories - good times

So on and so forth

preferred registration
dedicated counseling
internships
boosters

Preferred housing
more food choices
free physical therapy
free counseling

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My kid probably wouldn’t go to college if she wasn’t playing soccer there - she doesn’t like school and loves soccer. This way, she gets to play and I am happy she’s getting a degree at all instead of having to go back when she’s 30 or whatever. And I don’t have to pay for it.

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Anonymous wrote:How old is your kid that you are currently gunning for a pro career and s/he isn’t in high school yet? Is this typical? Not snarky - just curious.

I think it is typical.

Soccer is a young man's game. Many kids get signed by the time they're 16 or 17. If you're 19 or 20 and you haven't been signed to a contract you are facing very long odds against success.

And it's pretty obvious by 13 or 14 which kids have any sort of chance of making it, and - more to the point - if the kid hasn't set himself the goal by this point, he's not going to put in the work necessary to make it.

We could have a separate discussion about whether chasing such a dream is sensible or realistic - but if that is the dream then it starts before high school or probably not at all.

I am the poster that the question was directed at and what the above says seems to make sense because I have also been curious too, when other parents knew their kid had procareer potential. I have a few kids and I can only say that about one kid who is currently pre-ECNL age. He has the skills, athleticism, motivation (playing soccer is what makes him happiest at the moment), and discipline (perfectionist, practices on his own, always eager to do and learn more). He could dribble and control the ball very well before he was 2, almost like an instinct. He also has soccer IQ which he uses effectively as part of a team. And yes, he's very good according to coaches, teammates, other soccer parents, etc. We assess every year whether he has the same interest and motivation because I can't imagine going through travel soccer and all this stuff unless my kid was already talented and had the motivation and discipline to keep on going. As to my point in a previous post, it definitely isn't worth it just for a college scholarship.

So in the major European leagues they sign kids to their YDS at 16. That is the first make or break year. The kids signed minimally have to be extremely good athletes- speed and quickness. I have seen two pro athletes at the high school level. It was as like men playing with boys. They were so athletically better vs everyone else they could play at 50-75% and still be the dominant player. They did not work at it or have a a high skill level in high school. If you do not have the athleticism all the work, skill, drive, soccer iq, etc does not matter.

You're a know nothing. Or a troll. Begone.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old is your kid that you are currently gunning for a pro career and s/he isn’t in high school yet? Is this typical? Not snarky - just curious.

I think it is typical.

Soccer is a young man's game. Many kids get signed by the time they're 16 or 17. If you're 19 or 20 and you haven't been signed to a contract you are facing very long odds against success.

And it's pretty obvious by 13 or 14 which kids have any sort of chance of making it, and - more to the point - if the kid hasn't set himself the goal by this point, he's not going to put in the work necessary to make it.

We could have a separate discussion about whether chasing such a dream is sensible or realistic - but if that is the dream then it starts before high school or probably not at all.

I am the poster that the question was directed at and what the above says seems to make sense because I have also been curious too, when other parents knew their kid had procareer potential. I have a few kids and I can only say that about one kid who is currently pre-ECNL age. He has the skills, athleticism, motivation (playing soccer is what makes him happiest at the moment), and discipline (perfectionist, practices on his own, always eager to do and learn more). He could dribble and control the ball very well before he was 2, almost like an instinct. He also has soccer IQ which he uses effectively as part of a team. And yes, he's very good according to coaches, teammates, other soccer parents, etc. We assess every year whether he has the same interest and motivation because I can't imagine going through travel soccer and all this stuff unless my kid was already talented and had the motivation and discipline to keep on going. As to my point in a previous post, it definitely isn't worth it just for a college scholarship.

So in the major European leagues they sign kids to their YDS at 16. That is the first make or break year. The kids signed minimally have to be extremely good athletes- speed and quickness. I have seen two pro athletes at the high school level. It was as like men playing with boys. They were so athletically better vs everyone else they could play at 50-75% and still be the dominant player. They did not work at it or have a a high skill level in high school. If you do not have the athleticism all the work, skill, drive, soccer iq, etc does not matter.

I definitely agree with the athleticism part, I think that's something a kid is just born with and no amount of training is going to give a child athleticism. I included that above as one of the factors we saw in our kid. We've had him try other sports too and he's caught on to all of them pretty quick but his interest stays with soccer.

I read a stat in an article that said 80% of 16 year olds playing in European pro academies are out of professional soccer by age 21. Even if you're good, it's not enough. You have to be the .001% to make it.

I think the odds of making it are about ten times higher than that. Let's say there are 3.5 million kids in a birth year. 50% are boys and 33% play soccer at some point and level. That's ~600K boys per year, and maybe 50ish will go pro somewhere. So that's about 0.01%.

In Europe the odds are rather better. Take the UK. Probably around 200K boys playing soccer per year and several hundred will get a pro contract at some level each year.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old is your kid that you are currently gunning for a pro career and s/he isn’t in high school yet? Is this typical? Not snarky - just curious.

I think it is typical.

Soccer is a young man's game. Many kids get signed by the time they're 16 or 17. If you're 19 or 20 and you haven't been signed to a contract you are facing very long odds against success.

And it's pretty obvious by 13 or 14 which kids have any sort of chance of making it, and - more to the point - if the kid hasn't set himself the goal by this point, he's not going to put in the work necessary to make it.

We could have a separate discussion about whether chasing such a dream is sensible or realistic - but if that is the dream then it starts before high school or probably not at all.

I am the poster that the question was directed at and what the above says seems to make sense because I have also been curious too, when other parents knew their kid had procareer potential. I have a few kids and I can only say that about one kid who is currently pre-ECNL age. He has the skills, athleticism, motivation (playing soccer is what makes him happiest at the moment), and discipline (perfectionist, practices on his own, always eager to do and learn more). He could dribble and control the ball very well before he was 2, almost like an instinct. He also has soccer IQ which he uses effectively as part of a team. And yes, he's very good according to coaches, teammates, other soccer parents, etc. We assess every year whether he has the same interest and motivation because I can't imagine going through travel soccer and all this stuff unless my kid was already talented and had the motivation and discipline to keep on going. As to my point in a previous post, it definitely isn't worth it just for a college scholarship.

So in the major European leagues they sign kids to their YDS at 16. That is the first make or break year. The kids signed minimally have to be extremely good athletes- speed and quickness. I have seen two pro athletes at the high school level. It was as like men playing with boys. They were so athletically better vs everyone else they could play at 50-75% and still be the dominant player. They did not work at it or have a a high skill level in high school. If you do not have the athleticism all the work, skill, drive, soccer iq, etc does not matter.

Different sports require different attributes. Obviously soccer players cannot be unathletic, but you do not need NFL speed or strength to play soccer for example so the kids stand out in different ways. But the ones with pro potential still stand out, at least to an educated observer. And they don't have to play 100% to stand out either. Tennis might be a better comparison than basketball or football. You cannot be fat, uncoordinated, slow or weak and be a pro tennis player. But nor do you need freakish speed or strength.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old is your kid that you are currently gunning for a pro career and s/he isn’t in high school yet? Is this typical? Not snarky - just curious.

I think it is typical.

Soccer is a young man's game. Many kids get signed by the time they're 16 or 17. If you're 19 or 20 and you haven't been signed to a contract you are facing very long odds against success.

And it's pretty obvious by 13 or 14 which kids have any sort of chance of making it, and - more to the point - if the kid hasn't set himself the goal by this point, he's not going to put in the work necessary to make it.

We could have a separate discussion about whether chasing such a dream is sensible or realistic - but if that is the dream then it starts before high school or probably not at all.

I am the poster that the question was directed at and what the above says seems to make sense because I have also been curious too, when other parents knew their kid had procareer potential. I have a few kids and I can only say that about one kid who is currently pre-ECNL age. He has the skills, athleticism, motivation (playing soccer is what makes him happiest at the moment), and discipline (perfectionist, practices on his own, always eager to do and learn more). He could dribble and control the ball very well before he was 2, almost like an instinct. He also has soccer IQ which he uses effectively as part of a team. And yes, he's very good according to coaches, teammates, other soccer parents, etc. We assess every year whether he has the same interest and motivation because I can't imagine going through travel soccer and all this stuff unless my kid was already talented and had the motivation and discipline to keep on going. As to my point in a previous post, it definitely isn't worth it just for a college scholarship.

So in the major European leagues they sign kids to their YDS at 16. That is the first make or break year. The kids signed minimally have to be extremely good athletes- speed and quickness. I have seen two pro athletes at the high school level. It was as like men playing with boys. They were so athletically better vs everyone else they could play at 50-75% and still be the dominant player. They did not work at it or have a a high skill level in high school. If you do not have the athleticism all the work, skill, drive, soccer iq, etc does not matter.

Different sports require different attributes. Obviously soccer players cannot be unathletic, but you do not need NFL speed or strength to play soccer for example so the kids stand out in different ways. But the ones with pro potential still stand out, at least to an educated observer. And they don't have to play 100% to stand out either. Tennis might be a better comparison than basketball or football. You cannot be fat, uncoordinated, slow or weak and be a pro tennis player. But nor do you need freakish speed or strength.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old is your kid that you are currently gunning for a pro career and s/he isn’t in high school yet? Is this typical? Not snarky - just curious.

I think it is typical.

Soccer is a young man's game. Many kids get signed by the time they're 16 or 17. If you're 19 or 20 and you haven't been signed to a contract you are facing very long odds against success.

And it's pretty obvious by 13 or 14 which kids have any sort of chance of making it, and - more to the point - if the kid hasn't set himself the goal by this point, he's not going to put in the work necessary to make it.

We could have a separate discussion about whether chasing such a dream is sensible or realistic - but if that is the dream then it starts before high school or probably not at all.

I am the poster that the question was directed at and what the above says seems to make sense because I have also been curious too, when other parents knew their kid had procareer potential. I have a few kids and I can only say that about one kid who is currently pre-ECNL age. He has the skills, athleticism, motivation (playing soccer is what makes him happiest at the moment), and discipline (perfectionist, practices on his own, always eager to do and learn more). He could dribble and control the ball very well before he was 2, almost like an instinct. He also has soccer IQ which he uses effectively as part of a team. And yes, he's very good according to coaches, teammates, other soccer parents, etc. We assess every year whether he has the same interest and motivation because I can't imagine going through travel soccer and all this stuff unless my kid was already talented and had the motivation and discipline to keep on going. As to my point in a previous post, it definitely isn't worth it just for a college scholarship.

So in the major European leagues they sign kids to their YDS at 16. That is the first make or break year. The kids signed minimally have to be extremely good athletes- speed and quickness. I have seen two pro athletes at the high school level. It was as like men playing with boys. They were so athletically better vs everyone else they could play at 50-75% and still be the dominant player. They did not work at it or have a a high skill level in high school. If you do not have the athleticism all the work, skill, drive, soccer iq, etc does not matter.

Different sports require different attributes. Obviously soccer players cannot be unathletic, but you do not need NFL speed or strength to play soccer for example so the kids stand out in different ways. But the ones with pro potential still stand out, at least to an educated observer. And they don't have to play 100% to stand out either. Tennis might be a better comparison than basketball or football. You cannot be fat, uncoordinated, slow or weak and be a pro tennis player. But nor do you need freakish speed or strength.

+1

Well, the players in both sports are getting bigger and stronger over time. The Premier league, always physical, is now more physical than ever and you do need lightning speed at the International level.

Tennis: Serena Williams. The women are becoming more powerful Look at gymnasts: Nadia Comaneci --tiny and light and lean used to do it. Look at gymnasts today starting back when Mary Lou Retton came on the scene: look at the sheer muscle and athleticism in Simone Biles.

People will continue to optimize performance to break boundaries, records and that comes with optimizing physical traits.

NBA is another sport where the players have become so much bigger and more muscular than Larry Bird's time.

[Anonymous]

This is a college thread not a pro thread

Your kid is not playing pro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a college thread not a pro thread

Your kid is not playing pro.

I never understand why people love to say that on here. I’m quite certain that the parents of Kevin Paredes, Drew Skundrich, and every single other male pro-soccer player with a supportive family wondered at some point prior to the tween years whether their talented kid had what it took to make it. They then invested the time and/or money needed to help their kid get there, just like some of the PPs on here are starting to do. I think everyone is aware that the odds are slim, but you can’t win if you don’t play. Many of the kids who have pro dreams and a lot of talent at 10 will end up playing in college, many won’t even get to that level ultimately, and a few will, indeed, go pro instead of attending, or after graduating from, college.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old is your kid that you are currently gunning for a pro career and s/he isn’t in high school yet? Is this typical? Not snarky - just curious.

I think it is typical.

Soccer is a young man's game. Many kids get signed by the time they're 16 or 17. If you're 19 or 20 and you haven't been signed to a contract you are facing very long odds against success.

And it's pretty obvious by 13 or 14 which kids have any sort of chance of making it, and - more to the point - if the kid hasn't set himself the goal by this point, he's not going to put in the work necessary to make it.

We could have a separate discussion about whether chasing such a dream is sensible or realistic - but if that is the dream then it starts before high school or probably not at all.

I am the poster that the question was directed at and what the above says seems to make sense because I have also been curious too, when other parents knew their kid had procareer potential. I have a few kids and I can only say that about one kid who is currently pre-ECNL age. He has the skills, athleticism, motivation (playing soccer is what makes him happiest at the moment), and discipline (perfectionist, practices on his own, always eager to do and learn more). He could dribble and control the ball very well before he was 2, almost like an instinct. He also has soccer IQ which he uses effectively as part of a team. And yes, he's very good according to coaches, teammates, other soccer parents, etc. We assess every year whether he has the same interest and motivation because I can't imagine going through travel soccer and all this stuff unless my kid was already talented and had the motivation and discipline to keep on going. As to my point in a previous post, it definitely isn't worth it just for a college scholarship.

So in the major European leagues they sign kids to their YDS at 16. That is the first make or break year. The kids signed minimally have to be extremely good athletes- speed and quickness. I have seen two pro athletes at the high school level. It was as like men playing with boys. They were so athletically better vs everyone else they could play at 50-75% and still be the dominant player. They did not work at it or have a a high skill level in high school. If you do not have the athleticism all the work, skill, drive, soccer iq, etc does not matter.

Different sports require different attributes. Obviously soccer players cannot be unathletic, but you do not need NFL speed or strength to play soccer for example so the kids stand out in different ways. But the ones with pro potential still stand out, at least to an educated observer. And they don't have to play 100% to stand out either. Tennis might be a better comparison than basketball or football. You cannot be fat, uncoordinated, slow or weak and be a pro tennis player. But nor do you need freakish speed or strength.

+1

Well, the players in both sports are getting bigger and stronger over time. The Premier league, always physical, is now more physical than ever and you do need lightning speed at the International level.

No you do not need lightning speed. Sure, all other things being equal, lightning speed helps. Look at Liverpool for example. Joel Matip does not have lightning speed, nor even anythjng close to it. Nor do Fabinho, Alexander-Arnold, Milner, and Henderson amongst others.

Tennis: Serena Williams. The women are becoming more powerful Look at gymnasts: Nadia Comaneci --tiny and light and lean used to do it. Look at gymnasts today starting back when Mary Lou Retton came on the scene: look at the sheer muscle and athleticism in Simone Biles.

This doesn't change anything about my argument. All physical attributes help, but the balance remains different for different sports. So sure - any sportsman or woman takes advantage of modern training methods and drugs to be faster and stronger than the equivalent athlete of yesteryear. But that doesn't change much of anything about the inherent attributes kids require to make it.

People will continue to optimize performance to break boundaries, records and that comes with optimizing physical traits.

Indeed. But again the availability of superior training and performance enhancing drugs does not mean that kids must have those qualities prior to undertaking such training or courses of drugs, just that they can be attained through such efforts for those kids with the potential to turn pro in the first place. And that potential is not predicated solely on speed or strength any more than it ever was.

Here's an interesting link http://www.thebesteleven.com/2010/07/world-cup-2010-speed-and-distance-stats.html. It shows the top speeds of the fastest and slowest players in the 2010 world cup. The fastest players attained speeds of around 32 kph, the slowest around 20kph. By comparison Usain Bolt's top speed is 45 kph. Perhaps the comparison is not entirely fair since Usain Bolt doesn't hit his top speed until 65-70m into his sprint - but nevertheless it's very clear that the slower players do not have elite speed, or anything close to it.

44.72 kp

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old is your kid that you are currently gunning for a pro career and s/he isn’t in high school yet? Is this typical? Not snarky - just curious.

I think it is typical.

Soccer is a young man's game. Many kids get signed by the time they're 16 or 17. If you're 19 or 20 and you haven't been signed to a contract you are facing very long odds against success.

And it's pretty obvious by 13 or 14 which kids have any sort of chance of making it, and - more to the point - if the kid hasn't set himself the goal by this point, he's not going to put in the work necessary to make it.

We could have a separate discussion about whether chasing such a dream is sensible or realistic - but if that is the dream then it starts before high school or probably not at all.

I am the poster that the question was directed at and what the above says seems to make sense because I have also been curious too, when other parents knew their kid had procareer potential. I have a few kids and I can only say that about one kid who is currently pre-ECNL age. He has the skills, athleticism, motivation (playing soccer is what makes him happiest at the moment), and discipline (perfectionist, practices on his own, always eager to do and learn more). He could dribble and control the ball very well before he was 2, almost like an instinct. He also has soccer IQ which he uses effectively as part of a team. And yes, he's very good according to coaches, teammates, other soccer parents, etc. We assess every year whether he has the same interest and motivation because I can't imagine going through travel soccer and all this stuff unless my kid was already talented and had the motivation and discipline to keep on going. As to my point in a previous post, it definitely isn't worth it just for a college scholarship.

So in the major European leagues they sign kids to their YDS at 16. That is the first make or break year. The kids signed minimally have to be extremely good athletes- speed and quickness. I have seen two pro athletes at the high school level. It was as like men playing with boys. They were so athletically better vs everyone else they could play at 50-75% and still be the dominant player. They did not work at it or have a a high skill level in high school. If you do not have the athleticism all the work, skill, drive, soccer iq, etc does not matter.

Different sports require different attributes. Obviously soccer players cannot be unathletic, but you do not need NFL speed or strength to play soccer for example so the kids stand out in different ways. But the ones with pro potential still stand out, at least to an educated observer. And they don't have to play 100% to stand out either. Tennis might be a better comparison than basketball or football. You cannot be fat, uncoordinated, slow or weak and be a pro tennis player. But nor do you need freakish speed or strength.

The thing is - with guys - you don’t really know until they are in their 20s. One of the best players in MLB grew up where we are, and he is still good friends with the oldest son of our good friends. We would all see them occasionally growing up at various gatherings over the years. “You boys come over here and say hello”, kind of thing. Nice kid with nice parents. He was certainly not a guy in high school who would have impressed you at all with his size. Typical high school kid. Not quite 6 feet, probably not 170. Now he is a big guy. Lots of time in the weight room. Lots of trainers and careful diet. But I understand he is making north of $15M a year so not a problem.