I am married, but I recently kissed a co-worker.

[bookworm]

It started as flirting, lunches, emails. The usual set up. I thought she was coming onto me, but I am married. She is in a relationship, and she is 10 years younger, so I thought it was nothing but my imagination.

Long story short, after a group happy hour, she asked me to walk her to her car. When were there alone, she leaned in and we started kissing. It was so passionate. We kissed and touched eachother for 20 minutes. It was like high school. It was also fabulous to feel wanted and desired like that.

I don't want it to escalate. We talked the next day and agreed that it should not go anywhere. However, I feel really bad because I am married.

What should I do? Should I tell my wife? Also, I still see this person every day and the heat is still there, even though we are not acting on it.

Help!

[Anonymous]

Let's discuss all the ways this is wrong, DCUM... Go.

[Anonymous]

You know what to do! Grab her by the p***y!

[Anonymous]

NOOOOO!!!!!
OP, cut it out now. This won't end well. It will probably end worse for her in the long run.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You know what to do! Grab her by the p***y!

Did you read? He already checked that one off the list.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You know what to do! Grab her by the p***y!

Did you read? He already checked that one off the list.

Oops, caught the kissing but missed that. Well, then have her under the desk talking to the mic the next time he has a conference call ...

[Anonymous]

I would not tell my spouse if you think that it is truly over and you regret the kiss. I know I'll probably get flamed for that. But one kiss is not worth poisoning a marriage forever if you believe in your heart of hearts it was a one-off.

Also, I would distance yourself from co-worker as much as possible. Delete her number, skip work happy hours, etc.

[bookworm]

Anonymous wrote:I would not tell my spouse if you think that it is truly over and you regret the kiss. I know I'll probably get flamed for that. But one kiss is not worth poisoning a marriage forever if you believe in your heart of hearts it was a one-off.

Also, I would distance yourself from co-worker as much as possible. Delete her number, skip work happy hours, etc.

Thank you. This is a wise approach.

[Anonymous]

cheater

[Anonymous]

I'd go for it. But that's me.

Don't tell your wife. Worst idea ever. if you're such a Boy Scout that you can't bear the dishonesty, then suck it up and just don't do it again. You live with the guilt. In my experience telling on yourself is usually for your benefit, not hers.

[Anonymous]

What kind of male uses the word "fabulous?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What kind of male uses the word "fabulous?"

Who says it's a man? Could be two women.

[Anonymous]

What's more important to you? Feeling great temporarily or your marriage?

You decide.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What kind of male uses the word "fabulous?"

Who says it's a man? Could be two women.

A double order of clams? I hadn't thought of that!

[Anonymous]

Boooooooo