Does your boyfriend buy you clothing?

Anonymous
Does your boyfriend buy your dresses or clothing in general when you're out shopping together?

Just want to know if this is the norm or not?
Anonymous
My now DH did when we were dating. We were in our 30s, and they weren't expensive. I think we were at Macys or Nordstroms or something. I bought some special occasion dresses, and he wanted to pay for them. It was very sweet. The salesgirl was jealous
Anonymous
Not just a regular day at the mall. For Christmas or my birthday he's bought me clothes, or if he sees something unique with one of my sports teams when he's out and about.
Anonymous
God no but he is younger than me.

When I was younger, I had a few boyfriends who were older buy me clothes and jewelry especially if we were going out with clients for his work. I couldn't afford those things on my own and he worked in an industry where fashion and cloths mattered.
Anonymous
When the hospital lost my clothes he bought me under garments and several items of clothing.

Usually he gives me money if I saw something cute
Anonymous
No. When DH and I were dating he purchased clothes as a gift but never a Pretty Woman scenario where he either takes me shopping and pays for everything or stops me from paying for clothes I planned on buying for myself. In general though he hates going clothes shopping with me because I take a long time to decide.
Anonymous
No. He bought me Jimmy Choos once for a Christmas gift, but that was it. I'm totally ok with it.
Anonymous
Yes Dh does and did also when we were dating. Dresses, tops, shoes, purses. He has good taste so it's great.
Anonymous
He did when we were still dating, but stopped after the realization that our tastes were definitely not the same.

I did and do still get his input on shoes. He has a remarkable eye for super stylish shoes I'd never pick on my own.
Anonymous
Dh did it sometimes, like if it were a special event or he was buying something too (or he really liked the outfit!). He found out early on that our relationship would be short lived if he always wanted to pay for things I could pay for on my own.
Anonymous
If you're trying on special occasion dresses, he's right there and comments how great you look, but when its at the cash register he holds back and doesn't offer to pay or even slinks off to the side, is that a sign of an el cheapo?
Anonymous
Not once, in any of my relationships.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you're trying on special occasion dresses, he's right there and comments how great you look, but when its at the cash register he holds back and doesn't offer to pay or even slinks off to the side, is that a sign of an el cheapo?


What?? Of course not. Why would you expect your BF to buy you dresses? Maybe once you're married because your finances are joint, but before that? No.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you're trying on special occasion dresses, he's right there and comments how great you look, but when its at the cash register he holds back and doesn't offer to pay or even slinks off to the side, is that a sign of an el cheapo?


No, but if you're the girlfriend expecting him to buy your shit, that's a sure sign of an el bitcho.
Anonymous
Nope. PJs or flannels for Christmas, but that's it. He would not even know where to start.
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