Don't like French kissing

[Anonymous]

Anyone else? Have recently relied that I don't like long make out sessions like I used to. Definitely no tongue-grosses me out a little. Been married for 12 years. Is this weird?

[Anonymous]

*realized*

[Anonymous]

I've always been a little bit this way myself. I'm a DW. Are you a DH or DW?

[Anonymous]

I only like/enjoy it during sex. It's always been like that for me.

[Anonymous]

Op here, am a DW. Don't even really like it during sex. I like kissing, and not necessarily on lips. Just not into the deep tongue-ing.

[Anonymous]

00:16 here.
It's not weird you like what you like, and that can change over time.

I' say as long as your not grossed out about your spouse in other ways it's fine.

[Anonymous]

I also dont like it much. Always been grossed out by spit (even the word saliva grosses me out). I will french kiss when we have both freshly brushed our teeth. I hate sharing drinks. It's definitely a quirk, but it's just who I am.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I only like/enjoy it during sex. It's always been like that for me.

This. Even then, not always a.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here, am a DW. Don't even really like it during sex. I like kissing, and not necessarily on lips. Just not into the deep tongue-ing.

Me too.

[Anonymous]

I'm the same, OP!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I also dont like it much. Always been grossed out by spit (even the word saliva grosses me out). I will french kiss when we have both freshly brushed our teeth. I hate sharing drinks. It's definitely a quirk, but it's just who I am.

not a quirk PP. this is me, and I don't at all consider myself to be quirky.

I refuse to share anything that involves saliva, even my own kids. It makes my skin crawl.

If anyone drinks from my glass.....thanks you can have it, I am done with it. I won't even eat out of someone else's plate. not happening.

[Anonymous]

There is a forum for this Relationships, Explicit.

[Anonymous]

It's not a thing.

Hollywood promotes it as "a thing" just like they promote three-somes. Doesn't ever happen

[Anonymous]

Depends on the kisser. A good French kiss is good. A sloppy one feels like a violation.

[Anonymous]

My friend's husband won't even share lip balm with her. Lol. If she uses it he buys a new one.

Many people aren't that great at french kissing and too forceful and invasive. I'll do it but I don't love it either. It's not sexually enhancing for me and is kind of distracting. I strongly prefer slow soft kisses with his hand on my neck or face by my ears. In my hair works too. Now that is enhancing : ) french kissers IME are too focused on a goal or something and it feels less open and relaxed. Plus I get this what do I do with your searching tongue feeling that I don't like. Slow french kissing is better but it still can feel one sided.