Anonymous wrote:My friend's husband won't even share lip balm with her. Lol. If she uses it he buys a new one.
Many people aren't that great at french kissing and too forceful and invasive. I'll do it but I don't love it either. It's not sexually enhancing for me and is kind of distracting. I strongly prefer slow soft kisses with his hand on my neck or face by my ears. In my hair works too. Now that is enhancing : ) french kissers IME are too focused on a goal or something and it feels less open and relaxed. Plus I get this what do I do with your searching tongue feeling that I don't like. Slow french kissing is better but it still can feel one sided.
Ugh, I used to date a guy who liked to cram his tongue down my throat. I would always pull back and try to lead by example by kissing him my way (which I feel is more intimate). One day he said he didn't understand why I wouldn't "kiss like an adult." I should have known then that he wasn't a keeper! (PSA: This is what porn does to men - it teaches them how to make porn, not how to make love. And certainly not how to please a woman.)
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