Are single moms 'easy'?

[Anonymous]

I think I read this on DCUM. I am a single mom, just getting back into dating. My kids are the most important things in the world to me, and I rarely schedule time away from them during my parenting time (50/50) unless I absolutely have to. I only schedule my social events when they are with their father, unless it's something unavoidable like a birthday party or work event. Even then, I'm choosy about what I go to!

I would think it would be harder to "score" on a single mom because she would be protective of her child and time with her child, and especially who is in the house when the children are with her. On the one hand, I understand that single moms are sexual humans just like the rest of us. But personally, I would want to take it slow and steady and get to know the guy before deciding to sleep with him, because if it doesn't work out then there will be that hard part of breaking up, and that could be a distraction from being 100% present for my kids.

So, what's the deal, DCUM?

[Anonymous]

Wait, what is the question here? You believe that people assume single moms are easy and you want to know why?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wait, what is the question here? You believe that people assume single moms are easy and you want to know why?

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Well you're thinking of it from the viewpoint of wanting a relationship first. Many single moms don't want to seriously date anyone because they want to concentrate on their children (see other thread) but since they're sexual beings, some will be open to a quick FWB arrangement. More so, perhaps, than childless women who do have serious relationships in mind.
Also, some single moms got that way by being easy in the first place.
Some may be so desperate to score a second dad that they will enter into a sexual relationship quicker.

[Anonymous]

I don't agree that single moms are easy, but I do get the feeling that that is the general impression out there. fwiw

[Anonymous]

It's something that other women say to feel more superior. Women in general are easier to sleep with nowadays. Married, childless, single moms.

[Anonymous]

I think you answered your question . But post separation/divorce people go through a slut phase

[Anonymous]

Man who has dated single moms in the past (now my dating years are over).

Some of them realize they have limited free time so want to get down to business quickly. I remember one I had over to my place for dinner. I was only sort of into her, so sent her on her way after dinner with no fooling around. She knocks on my door a minute later and starts kissing me passionately and that went all the way. I guess she still had time before the babysitter needed to leave.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well you're thinking of it from the viewpoint of wanting a relationship first. Many single moms don't want to seriously date anyone because they want to concentrate on their children (see other thread) but since they're sexual beings, some will be open to a quick FWB arrangement. More so, perhaps, than childless women who do have serious relationships in mind.
Also, some single moms got that way by being easy in the first place.
Some may be so desperate to score a second dad that they will enter into a sexual relationship quicker.

You took the words out of my mouth. My son was the center of my life (he, mine, until he was 16) and what was left was divided between work...and sex when he was with his father.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I think you answered your question . But post separation/divorce people go through a slut phase

+1. This helps create the impression.

[Anonymous]

Definitely slutty women out there, but its a Jekll/Hyde thing when Mommy is on or off the clock. Been divorced for years and have fucked more women as FWB solely due to our roles as parents. I'm envious of the second honeymoon phase because I see it with the XW and her DH, yet her responsibility as a mother is lacking at best. The kids always suffer the most.

[Anonymous]

It's 28-32 age group that is the most desperate.

Aka easy pickins.

[Anonymous]

Single women with kids generally know what they want. Sex with the ex may have been bad, and they want to catch up on lost time.

Most don't want a substitute dad. They just want someone to satisfy their physical needs.

[Anonymous]

In my single days, I found that moms of younger kids (heck, older kids too) want to be appreciated and found attractive. (Well everyone does, but there is a little excess baggage with moms).

I found that, when out, hitting on women that were in my league, in almost every case I got lucky, there was a car seat in her vehicle. Plus, it would be faster. Once she felt desired, it was like every thing melted away. They wanted to feel me. And sometimes, they did not want a relationship. They just wanted to feel attractive. And once that happened, they wanted me....

I found that I could almost always get lucky. I was 33, single, not bad looking...Now, I do not think it would happen. I am not 33 anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Single women with kids generally know what they want. Sex with the ex may have been bad, and they want to catch up on lost time.

Most don't want a substitute dad. They just want someone to satisfy their physical needs.

This. My newly single hot friend is having a blast. When they try to get serious she drops kicks them to the curb.