Anonymous wrote:OP here. Trying to gauge, so thanks for the responses. I'm just entering the dating pool and intend to take my time getting to know someone. For me, right now, getting a date and enjoying my time with him is enough assurance that I'm still attractive. Just trying to figure out how to weed out the bad ones who pretend to be interested in my brain so they can get into my pants.
Men who don't want sex or are willing to go through a long "getting to know you" period are hard to figure out. The rest are not.
Simply because a man wants to get in your pants, doesn't mean he isn't interested. Just be sure that your part of the conversation is about things that are really important to you. Often, it is tempting for women to key off what the guy says. Do you have the courage (?) to say "I'm more interested in - - - ."
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