Agreed. I'm the PP with the son who was abused by the dysfunctional special needs child. In addition to this dysfunctional child, there were several (I think about 3-4) children who had mild special needs and needed some basic accommodations that were normally easy to accommodate. In the normal course of school, one para-educator would stop in once or twice per day and would help those children or would figure out what those children needed and communicate with the regular teacher to make sure that they were aware of things that were needed. Once the paraeducator was assigned 1:1 to this dysfunctional child, the other mild special needs children were not getting nearly the amount of attention they were getting before. They essentially went from a supportive environment to a minimum support environment where only the basics that were already spelled out in their IEPs or 504s were handled and nothing else. So, the extra in-class attention towards the one dysfunctional child actually had the biggest effect on the other special needs children who lost the extra support that they had been getting. |
I have one child in a non-public and one in a mainstream classroom. I would choose non-public for both of children because of the current staffing shortages. The majority of students have IEPs or 504 plans in a classroom. If my child is in a non-public setting, he doesn't need 90% of the accommodations on his IEP because the school is set up that way by default. I am not worried about his meltdowns or sensory needs because the school has the resources and the tools available without it being documented, reviewed and approved. Keeping my child in a mainstream classroom is not as important to me as ensuring that my child feels safe, comfortable and is learning. Until our county has the staff and the resources to make sure the learning environment is conducive to my child learning, I'm going to push for my child to be in a more restrictive environment. The staffing shortages alone are reason enough to move children who require more. |
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Many reasons -
- Years of terrible K-12 education means that beyond ES, teachers are not capable of teaching in MS and HS - especially Math, Science and Foreign Language. Usually the liberal arts teachers were below average students who could not hack it elsewhere. - Poor pay does not attract smart students to this field. It is still mostly middle aged white women who teach. - Influx of more and more illegal immigrants who are lacking in education and English language skills. - Teachers being responsible for bridging the achievement gap without any power in their class for disciplining trouble makers - No support given to teachers. - Toxic administrators - Lack of curriculum, syallbus and textbooks. |
Interesting- a new take on a classic thought experiment. If a “dysfunctional child” has a tantrum in a self-contained SPED classroom with no "normal kids" to hear it, does he make a sound? Kidding. Obviously the main question is whether anyone would care. And the answer is clearly no. It would be even more expensive to the district to move a child like that to a self-contained classroom than to assign a 1:1 in the classroom. Unless, of course, they don't care about making sure the child is actually in a safe and educational environment. |
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The short answer to OP's question is that the job is exhausting in a multitude of ways...not just physically, not just psychologically, but emotionally, socially and organizationally. By the end of the day the neurotransmitters are bouncing around my brain like a pinball.
Most teachers care a great deal. We work our butts off trying to check off all the boxes. We are human and that doesn't seem to be enough. This is why teachers are quitting. |
Judging from online reviews, it's a popularity contest. I'm afraid I'd rather get the Dr who catches the nuances of my nascent disease than the one who can tell a good joke and makes me feel sunny, thank you very much |
Awwwwww. You think only 3% of kids cannot function in the main stream environment. Do you have a central office job and were trained to teach in the nineties? I am a classroom teacher and was taught UDL in the late nineties, but things have changed. This year alone, we have 5 new kindergartners who arrived in a combination of diapers or with severe disabilities (non-verbal) out of a class of 100. That is more than 3% and doesn’t count the children who already have IEPs and currently get support. And no, it isn’t the kids with dyslexia who are pulling the resources. It is the kids showing up not toilet trained and without words in ANY language without IEPs. Must be nice to be able to blame UDL and the classroom teachers though…. Takes the burden off you and places it back on the teachers. We are overwhelmed. Come tell me how to man the door so the eloped doesn’t elope, change the diapers of a 6 year old and teach at the same time. UDL take me away! |
But would you tell the doctor who makes you feel sunny more details about your current state and they will catch more nuances of your disease? |
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Where do this kids in diapers and non verbal come from? Are they illegal immigrants? Or do they come from generational poverty?
I can’t explain lack of previous supports and care otherwise |
Possibilities. Abuse/ trauma. Drug addicted parents. Extreme poverty/homelessness. Some forms of undiagnosed autism or other disorders that the parents could never afford to get diagnosed. Often more than one of these issues. |
The public school thing, we educate ALL the kids even the illegal immigrants and the children who suffer from generational poverty. All the kids. Because they are KIDS. |
Not a teacher, but many families struggled during the pandemic. I can see that if there were families where the parents had to work many more hours or multiple PT jobs that they may not have been able to do everything they normally did. With the stressors of not being able to go out or do many usual things, many children had anxieties and issues that may have prevented them from learning the things they might normally have learned. I know many young children who fell behind on many standard milestones during the pandemic. So, it isn't a surprise that there may be more kindergarteners than usual who did not potty train. And in households that predominantly speak a language other than English, I can also see that without being able to go out and encounter other families or children at playgrounds or public spaces that children who were raised in households where a foreign language was the default language may have had less opportunity than normal to learn English from non-family contact. |
We got a new kindergarten student today who was in diapers and mostly non-verbal. His mom said the babysitter didn't potty train him. He was completely attached to mom's phone. I heard him screaming in the hallway and I assumed it was when his mom left. Nope. She took the phone away and he screamed bloody murder. His birthday was about a week ago so they decided to put him in pre-k. He will come in tomorrow for an hour and see if he will actually go into the classroom and sit with his mom there. He scratched and bruised some admin trying to help out today. |
Yup. This is life for teachers right now. Please listen. |
Pshhh. Half the time, parents of these children are convinced their kids are "indigo children" who are misunderstood geniuses. |