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That’s fine for you, but would it be fine for the rest of the donors. Maybe or maybe not, because there is not full disclosure. This is not the school money, is the parents money by the way. |
You’re making the assumption that if a family with 1 kid is getting $X, then a family with 3 kids is getting 3X. That’s not the case. Your threshold to pay is not an absolute number. A larger family is expected to contribute more of their income or ability to pay than a smaller family. You’re also forgetting that FA is an investment in the school’s future donors. The more recipients they support today, the more donor they create for the future. |
Yes. But is not the school money but the parents money. School can continue selecting candidates for financial aid, but the right thing to do is to be transparent. Also, if money is tight in school is not a bad idea to admit more middle income families that pay full tuition. What’s wrong with that for the school future? Middle class families that pay full tuition are worse than the ones the receive financial aid? Are you sure about that? |
For most of these schools it's difficult to include all the people's children who are already in the community. A lower income child who needs full funding has to be really bringing something special to the community to stand out amonst all the legacy, admin, siblings, family members who already have their foot in the door. I known that's hard to understand but it's the way the world works. Finding jobs is similar- you need to know someone on the inside. |
Yes, now you get it! You are a taker not a giver. |
I have an idea. Post your bank account number and I can just fully fund your child's tuition. Happy? |
Diversity. Large families bring more diversity in family structure. Or do you want to redefine diversity to suit your narrow situation? Schools have a definition that suits them, maybe it doesn't suit you. I don't care how you define it. The way the school defines it suits me. |
LOOOOOOOOOOL. that is some really anti-DEI stuff there. |
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It's not about their suffering or not. To me, as a donor, it's about a well rounded community for MY kid, not your specific situation. I dont want my rich kids to be surrounded only by the rich or the poor. I actually would rather them be surrounded by middle class people. So by providing multiple middle class families this opportunity rather than very select few low income kids, the community is more rounded. I do not want my kids in a situation like I grew up in where there were rich kids and poor kids. Guess who ran the school? If the school has many MC kids the dynamics are much much better. I will donate to that. If you don't like that I support that cause for my own children, I don't care at all. |
💯 absolutely!! It's the parent's money and they can designate how it's spent. At our school they can tick a box or fill in the blank. They can also write "I don't want teachers or MC people to receive any financial aid with this money", or, "I want all this money to upgrade the dining facilities", or, "I want this money to be spent to market in lower income communities", or, I want this money to be spent only on the girls basketball team". See how that works? Maybe the donors should just donate to the facilities and their kids' sports - no financial aid at all. How would you find that? After all, they still get the same tax break. |
Ok, let's flip it around. Is it diversity to advocate for a 2 person family - 1 mom, 1 kid? How is it different to advocate for the other end member? Or do you only want to looks with a narrow len? Diversity isn't diverse if everyone is the same. Same family structure, same financials, same race, etc. There are so many ways to look at diversity. Why are you so arrogant to think only your way matters? |
Not advocating for type of family. It's already bad enough that two breadwinner family gets the short end of the stick when come to FA |
Got it! So you want to take family structure out of the diversity equation. Sad. Some people want to take race out of the diversity equation. Also sad. Glad our school doesn't do either of those. |
Schools are not individuals are non profits and they do have disclose some financial information. But, well, might a difficult concept for you to understand. |