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Anonymous wrote:the bolded statement reads as incredibly privileged. it should be about providing everyone at all levels with great schools. (while improving the middle schools could use more attention, my overall impression of bowser is that she does for the most part care about kids in dc.)
Incredibly privileged people like us on Capitol Hill (read many Federal employees) deserve neighborhood middle and high schools most of us are OK with for our tax dollars. Unfortunately, we're almost as far from having them as we were nearly 20 years ago, when my spouse and I bought our first property in the neighborhood.
Our overall impression is that Bowser could absolutely care less if UMC families with school-age kids, particularly whites, bail on city schools, and the District itself for that matter. Fenty cared, Gray, too. Not this short-sighted mayor.
Being OK with is such a BS target. You have MS and HS available to you. Attend them.
They will become OK enough for you.
You first, mate.
If the elementary schools are good enough, then why wouldn’t the middle and high schools be good enough? It would be the same children from elementary.
Because the ES kids peel off starting in 5th (BASIS, Latin, private, parochial) and then again in 6th. The reality of ES on the Hill is that ECE is very strong but parents who really wanted to buy in realize in upper ES that the academics are lackluster and behavioral issues get much worse as hormones kick in. At that point a lot of parents who wanted to buy in can't take the risk. In all fairness I think this is also the reality at several HCS as well. This is the fundamental challenge facing DCPS/Charters and education in general. How much (if at all) wills schools cater to or even care about high performing kids? What does "equity" mean?
Just weighing in as a family in this situation, and this is spot on. And it's really the way that behavioral issues interact with academics that pushes you to start looking at charters. Our kid is mostly on grade level academically, maybe a little above grade level in ELA. But not an academic superstar. But one of the main things she has going for her in a DCPS elementary is that she is attentive, a good listener, has strong emotional regulation skills, and no behavioral concerns. As we progress in elementary, what this means is that she is used as an emotional regulator in some groups (assigned to pairs and groups with kids who struggle with these things, in the hopes she will be a tempering influence) or is left to her own devices while teachers focus on kids who need more one-to-one help with behavioral issues, since she can function independently without help.
At first this doesn't seem like such a bad thing. I recognize many of the kids with bigger issues are dealing with issues my child had never dealt with. I also think it's positive for her to learn to work independently, and to learn to work with different kinds of people. But the situation gets more pronounced past ECE, as some of the other kids with her emotiona/behavioral skills leave for other schools. This makes it harder for her to make friends because where in younger grades she would have gravitated to the other quiet, studious kids in class, she might not find another such kid in mid-to-late elementary. And we start to worry that what was benign neglect may actually hold her back, especially as we get closer to middle school. It was one thing when she was one of the early readers in class, and could sit and read or work on writing while the teachers provided intensive phonics help to other kids. But now she needs to be refining writing and critical thinking skills, and it doesn't feel like that's happening at schools. We're supplementing, but that takes time away from other activities, including just playing and building friendships.
We're not going to make it past 4th in DCPS and there is no way our kid is going to SH. It's not the right environment for her and I think both academically and socially, she will do much better in an environment where there are more kids who are working at her level academically and not struggling with basic behavioral expectations. I don't expect a school with no behavioral problems. But we have the option, through the lottery or by moving, to send her to a school where the majority of kids have basic emotional regulation skills. I'm no longer convinced we can find that in DCPS at the MS and HS level.