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Just doing our part to ensure 400 hits ASAP. We've moved to America exporting its problems (not new news) and problems with the NCAA. At this rate we'll 400 tonight. |
Being a Q4 kid has nothing to do with dropping soccer. kids drop the sport because they come to realize they don't have or want a future in the sport. They get other interests, especially in high school. If some kids don't make varsity by sophomore year that turns a lot kids off the sport too. You can't consider your kid a high level player if they can't make a high school varsity team by their sophomore year. |
That is a patently false statement. ECNL thrived where DA didn't in large part because it allowed for HS participation. ECNL for U-15-U19 is only for one season, whereas U-13/U-14 is for the whole year. Why? Because of the direct conflict with HS soccer. Regardless of your opinion of HS soccer, ECNL clubs work closely with the High Schools in many regions. Heck, a lot of High School work at those clubs too. |
Maybe that is why I'm such a SY fan. Do most parents want their kids to go pro? Elite soccer (at least for girls) is made up of wealthy parents that realize their ROI is thrashed but don't care. They just want Suzy to attend Stanford and get a degree while entering the elite club of D1 athletes competitive companies seek. Its a resume builder. I'd personally be upset if my daughter wanted to continue with soccer after college. $60k a year and falling behind coworkers on her career path would make me regret this whole thing. College is the end goal for me and the parents I know but maybe I have that part wrong. |
There you go letting facts get in the way again. lol. I try once to set the ignorantly opinionated straight, then I just let them rant. Maybe in some small market the club is threatened by HS ball. The largest concern in my market is injury. Everyone knows its a risk playing with less skilled players that use physicality to overcome technical skill but I don't know one kid that doesn't play HS ball and most of the teams here are top 10 in the nation. |
The BY crowd will only realize the error of their thinking when the shoe is on the other foot. I guess the majority of high level players are Jan through June because...ummmm...the weather was warmer when they were born?? I don't even have a theory you could possibly be holding onto. In five years when Q3 kids are dominating the sport I look forward to coming back here and reminding you that the June kids aren't good anymore because they aren't trying hard enough. They are dropping out of soccer at alarming rates because they all suddenly realized they liked other sports. The avoidance of the obvious is incredible and what infuriates the Q4 crowd. Just admit you've had an advantage that is going away and move on. |
This may be another difference between boys and girls. Very different goals because the payoffs are far different. I only have girls so I wonder if it's as pay to play on the boys side? The level of elitism in girls soccer is shocking. The resources needed to be on the best teams is crazy. |
Yes this is false at least on the girls' side. |
This thread does crack me up with parents all pointing fingers on who is too invested in youth soccer. |
Playing pro female soccer is not a path for the future unless you are crazy good so on the YNT or think you will get on WNT and are either very pretty or edgy in a way that is in demand at that moment for marketing. If you do not fir this but can go to Stanford as PP says above then you should do that and start your life. |
Eeesh. I don't know that world at all. The marketability part never crossed my mind. What sad commentary and more reason to not make pro the goal. |
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You’re not correct. And it depends on the ECNL club…the most competitive (and many that want to be the most competitive) DO NOT allow it. Does “ECNL” allow for it? Yes. But that doesn’t mean clubs have to allow for it. Tons of reasons for this. They don’t want to lose time un-coaching bad HS practices, they don’t want added work and wear on their athletes, they want to minimize injuries, they want to make sure the athlete is getting the right exposure to the schools they want to target, etc. One of the big selling points for RL in many markets is that the kids have the time and freedom to play HS soccer if that is important to them. And I can tell you, for kids that playing HS soccer is important enough to drop to RL or play for a bottom ECNL club, is a kid that has already capped their soccer career. |
🙄🙄🙄 PP was not making a BY/SY post. Is there anything that you don’t agree with that you don’t dub “BY opinion?” It’s getting old. |
Hunger games? So your kid is the one that is hacking on everyone at ID sessions / Try outs trying to cut down the roster one concussion and ACL at a time? I cannot say I enjoy watching those sessions. But I can honestly say I’ve never seen them as hunger games. The YNT camps are pretty awful in that regard too. That said, my DD has always been with the top group, typically top 1 or 2 kids on the field - and the top group does not have the hackers in them. And when kids bump up to their group, if they can’t hang, they’re out in 5m for another kid to tryout. Hackers never make it that to their group. Sometimes they get rostered, but they never make the top crew. |