DW bitches about me on DCUM. Should I care?

[Anonymous]

I am every DH. My sanctimonious DW posts endless BS on this forum about my "meh" communications skills, my endless need for sex, my working too much, my talking too little, and my numerous other imperfections. But I do my best every day, I work hard to support my family, I put up with needless nagging, and I am a better father than she ever gives me credit for. To all the unsung and unappreciated and maligned DHs -- you are amazing, thank you for all you do, and you really might be better off without her!

[Anonymous]

I don't post in DCUM because I know my husband reads it. I wish I had somewhere to vent about all the idiotic crap he does.

[Anonymous]

Oh my......How do you know it's her though? Well if you are certain it's her, this is your warning that they are major problems in your marriage. Now do you both want to solve the problem or just keep complaining. This is a good opportunity for both of you to sit down and address all concerns and then come to an agreement on how to handle challenges in the marriage going forward. Ignoring the the problem will lead to resentment and then divorce.

[Anonymous]

That's really inappropriate of her, OP. Some people confuse DCUM with a place to vent and justify spewing hateful crap about their spouses that would be better off said in a therapy session. Main reason is often people CAN identify others here. And, people tend to exaggerate when complaining about their spouse or paint them in the worst light possible in a pathetic bid for sympathy.

So, I suggest you confront your wife about this and if she doesn't grovel and apologize, divorce the cunt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That's really inappropriate of her, OP. Some people confuse DCUM with a place to vent and justify spewing hateful crap about their spouses that would be better off said in a therapy session. Main reason is often people CAN identify others here. And, people tend to exaggerate when complaining about their spouse or paint them in the worst light possible in a pathetic bid for sympathy.

So, I suggest you confront your wife about this and if she doesn't grovel and apologize, divorce the cunt.

I think the poster is supposed to be describing a composite figure, not an actual individual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That's really inappropriate of her, OP. Some people confuse DCUM with a place to vent and justify spewing hateful crap about their spouses that would be better off said in a therapy session. Main reason is often people CAN identify others here. And, people tend to exaggerate when complaining about their spouse or paint them in the worst light possible in a pathetic bid for sympathy.

So, I suggest you confront your wife about this and if she doesn't grovel and apologize, divorce the cunt.

I think the poster is supposed to be describing a composite figure, not an actual individual.

Good Lord I need more coffee.

[Anonymous]

This is definitely not the site for female accountability. In the entire world those two words rarely go together.

[Anonymous]

Are you sure 100% it is your DW OP??

Or could it be someone else who is having same marital issues??

[Anonymous]

READ THE OP AGAIN PEOPLE

[Anonymous]

I worry for my children because it seems like no one is learning actual relationship skills anymore. It certainly seems that way after reading DCUM for a few months at least.

I mean having a successful loving relationship not the whole nonstop backstabbing war thingy..

[Anonymous]

As long as there are identifying details, and neither of you plan on holding public office one day, I don't think you should care. She's venting. You can vent too!

[Anonymous]

NO identifying details.

Need to drink my coffee.

[Anonymous]

How the duck do you know it's her ? Troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How the fuck do you know it's her ? Troll

[Anonymous]

I don't know. Some people need to talk things out but won't do it with people they know for obvious reasons. If she's working through things, then I think it's okay.

If she's addicted, then I think that's a separate concern.

Does she know you know what she posts? If there's something you've read that you want to discuss with her, you should be honest about it and raise the issue to talk it out.

All of this could be the opportunity to improve the relationship if there's good will and respect between you. If there's not, then the issue is bigger than some DCUM posts.