DH butthurt over everything

[Anonymous]

Does anyone else have a DH who is hypersensitive about his own feelings but a complete clod over yours? I'm 30 weeks pregnant and not once has DH walked to the store 3 minutes away to satisfy a craving I'm having. But at 7 in the morning he's upset I didn't add cheddar his eggs. Or he says I'm yelling at him but he starts clanging pots and pans when I'm trying to talk to him. I just need to breathe.

[Anonymous]

You sound whiny and hypersensitive.

Even... butthurt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound whiny and hypersensitive.

Even... butthurt.

+1

[Anonymous]

My DH is a very sensitive guy but he at least is really concerned about my feelings in return. I can't stand folks that are all delicate snowflakey about their own feelings but are completely oblivious to others.

[Anonymous]

You're pregnant not cripple, walk your ass to the store. The outside will do wonders for your attitude. Even in the rain.

As for the cheddar, tell him he's on his own for that. Throw it on and nuke it himself. Damn. It ain't that hard.

Why are you two fighting ? The real fights start when the baby comes. OH YES THEY DO. Now kiss and make up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH is a very sensitive guy but he at least is really concerned about my feelings in return. I can't stand folks that are all delicate snowflakey about their own feelings but are completely oblivious to others.

This. Exactly!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're pregnant not cripple, walk your ass to the store. The outside will do wonders for your attitude. Even in the rain.

As for the cheddar, tell him he's on his own for that. Throw it on and nuke it himself. Damn. It ain't that hard.

Why are you two fighting ? The real fights start when the baby comes. OH YES THEY DO. Now kiss and make up.

i agree, this is silly stuff. Is something else going on?

[Anonymous]

You married a man-child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH is a very sensitive guy but he at least is really concerned about my feelings in return. I can't stand folks that are all delicate snowflakey about their own feelings but are completely oblivious to others.

This. Exactly!

Yeah.

You're allowed to be sensitive IF you are equally gentle in your treatment of others.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're pregnant not cripple, walk your ass to the store. The outside will do wonders for your attitude. Even in the rain.

As for the cheddar, tell him he's on his own for that. Throw it on and nuke it himself. Damn. It ain't that hard.

Why are you two fighting ? The real fights start when the baby comes. OH YES THEY DO. Now kiss and make up.

i agree, this is silly stuff. Is something else going on?

Exactly! Get up off your ass. Being pregnant (and just 30 weeks) doesn't entitle you to anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're pregnant not cripple, walk your ass to the store. The outside will do wonders for your attitude. Even in the rain.

As for the cheddar, tell him he's on his own for that. Throw it on and nuke it himself. Damn. It ain't that hard.

Why are you two fighting ? The real fights start when the baby comes. OH YES THEY DO. Now kiss and make up.

i agree, this is silly stuff. Is something else going on?

Exactly! Get up off your ass. Being pregnant (and just 30 weeks) doesn't entitle you to anything.

+1

I'm laughing my ass off over the fact that you're going to have a VERY difficult transition to parenthood in 10 weeks.

LOL, your DH wouldn't buy your pregnancy cravings. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL Yeah, life is SO hard.

[Anonymous]

I don't know what post the PP's read. OP your husband sounds like an ass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know what post the PP's read. OP your husband sounds like an ass.

Oh, hi, first-time pregnant woman!

The rest of us read about someone who thinks being pregnant entitles her to being treated like an entitled princess. And that her DH isn't allowed to be unhappy about anything or express discontent over anything. OR "clang" pots and pans around.

[Anonymous]

Yes, mine is like that too. My feelings don't matter but I have to walk on eggshells around him. The baby could be pressing on you in such a way that you literally can't breathe very easily.

[Anonymous]

Hot tip: stop using stupid phrases like "butthurt." It speaks to the level of communication.