DH butthurt over everything

[Anonymous]

Man-child. I agree.

I think everyone is "butthurt" she wants to use the word "butthurt"= it's just a different way of expressing one's self!

So we expect proper, business-like english at all times on this board? Can't use a "slang" term? Wow.

With that, to stay on topic- I will say my Ex was a man-child as well- and he was "butthurt" when I told him I refused to pay ALL the house bills while he sat on his ass and played video games all day and refused to get even a part-time job. I was "butthurt" from physically being on my feet all day, and realized if I'm going to pay ALL the bills AND have to come home and cook/clean/etc I was better off ALONE! He didn't even bother to make sure our child made it to/from daycare (Which I paid for too!)

As of today, all is well, I am now a single mom who is GLAD she is one- and he is still unemployed and playing the same video games from his father's couch- "butthurt" I won't take him back (I make sure he sees his child every 2 weeks, but that's the best I can do!). And the finances- he is now up to 18k in back support- but I can't get blood from a stone so I just let it rack up and keep it moving for myself and our kid, we are doing just fine. Moved to a nicer place, got a nice car, etc all on my own!!! Kid makes the honor roll in school too! All is well here! If I stayed with him I would have literally had my BF as my dependent and that's a HELL NO!! (I know, some men take care of their women 100% equal opportunity, but it would have been nice if he could at LEAST make an EFFORT to pay some bills but it was his intention to MOOCH!)

Let the asses ache, it's a free country, one can decide if they want it to hurt or not!! :p

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is butthurt?

A word that remotely civilized people don't use.

Actually, here on the internet, it's a great word that says a lot in very few characters: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ButtHurt

Speak the language, PP.

I like that the definition you choose to show it is appropriate usage selected this as its example sentence: "Adam got butthurt when Mike stole his bitch"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is butthurt?

A word that remotely civilized people don't use.

Actually, here on the internet, it's a great word that says a lot in very few characters: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ButtHurt

Speak the language, PP.

I like that the definition you choose to show it is appropriate usage selected this as its example sentence: "Adam got butthurt when Mike stole his bitch"

Welcome to the internet! You must be new...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is butthurt?

A word that remotely civilized people don't use.

Actually, here on the internet, it's a great word that says a lot in very few characters: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ButtHurt

Speak the language, PP.

I like that the definition you choose to show it is appropriate usage selected this as its example sentence: "Adam got butthurt when Mike stole his bitch"

Welcome to the internet! You must be new...

Are you under the impression that the Internet is a worldwide baboon habitat? It's ok to behave in a civilized manner, even if we're all anonymous here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You're pregnant not cripple, walk your ass to the store. The outside will do wonders for your attitude. Even in the rain.

As for the cheddar, tell him he's on his own for that. Throw it on and nuke it himself. Damn. It ain't that hard.

Why are you two fighting ? The real fights start when the baby comes. OH YES THEY DO. Now kiss and make up.

i agree, this is silly stuff. Is something else going on?

Exactly! Get up off your ass. Being pregnant (and just 30 weeks) doesn't entitle you to anything.

Wow. You sound like a hard person.

[Anonymous]

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Aster302516 wrote:I’m sorry about your situation and I can understand how painful it is when your husband is not thoughtful about your feelings. I just said a prayer for you and I truly hope things get better. Wishing you a safe and happy pregnancy! Hugs!

Aw very sweet!! I am not OP but thank you.

I read the original post as heavy sarcasm.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone else have a DH who is hypersensitive about his own feelings but a complete clod over yours? I'm 30 weeks pregnant and not once has DH walked to the store 3 minutes away to satisfy a craving I'm having. But at 7 in the morning he's upset I didn't add cheddar his eggs. Or he says I'm yelling at him but he starts clanging pots and pans when I'm trying to talk to him. I just need to breathe.

Ok, if you are just finding out that this is how he behaves and you are 7 months pregnant I think you have a whole other set of problems to deal with other than 3 min walks and cheese. How do you marry or get pregnant by someone who you didn't know is not really sensitive to your feelings?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You married a man-child.

Sounds like it.

yeah but she's a girl-child so they're well suited to each other.

The equivalent would be woman child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone else have a DH who is hypersensitive about his own feelings but a complete clod over yours? I'm 30 weeks pregnant and not once has DH walked to the store 3 minutes away to satisfy a craving I'm having. But at 7 in the morning he's upset I didn't add cheddar his eggs. Or he says I'm yelling at him but he starts clanging pots and pans when I'm trying to talk to him. I just need to breathe.

I'll cheddar your eggs