| Come on, none of you have ever known a really nice (often spineless) guy who gets involved with a terror of a woman? The “Family Relationships” board is full of stories like this! I think they even joked years back that he tried to break up with her once and she wouldn’t let him. |
I think you're trying to rationalize giving him a pass. As if he's oblivious to who she really is and what she's been tweeting about for 10 years. During that same time frame she's spammed how lovey dovey they are, how they hang out in bed all day and cook with each other at night.
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I think you are all oversimplifying human beings. They have been together for 15 years. She is a human who has done super crappy things and good things. She has birthed two of his children and they suffered the devastating loss of a third in the last year. It is insane to think he would walk away from her. He loves her, flaws and all. Everyone is deserving of love. Anyone who hopes Chrissy Teigan's life and family collapse into ruin because she was an ahole on the internet in 2013 are just as bad as they think she is. And that isn't defending her, but you know, telling someone you hope she loses everything she loves because she once said similar things to other people should give people empathy to how one can dehumanize on the internet. Just look at the H&M and Hilaria threads in this forum. Acting like celebrities/public figures on the internet have no feelings is a national past time. i wonder how many people here ripping into CT are also over there on the H&M thread. And that isn't defending CT, I think what she did was awful, just that this problem of dehumanizing people cruelly on the internet does not begin or end with CT going through a long and terrible mean girl phase. |
Talent and education doesn’t mean he’s not a wuss and will stand up against her publicly. |
I was with you until you said Chrissy is in a mean girl “phase”. No. This is who she is. It’s not a phase. |
| Questioning why someone stays with someone who tried to bully children into suicide is not being as bad as Christy Teigan. |
Honestly that is an opinion. Neither of us know her. I wouldn't be confident in saying she was evil incarnate or a reformed bully because I don't know her! I do know that trauma can change people though, and she's been through some real A sh*& this year. |
I do not think her end goal was ever to actually have someone kill themselves. This is just my opinion, I don't know what's in her heart. But in the mob mentality of the internet and mean girl bonding they say really horrible things. I never said that to anyone, and can't imagine doing so, but I do know people that were absolutely horrible in HS/their twenties who grew up. At the end of the day, what she did then is go after people she didn't know and wish horrible things on them. And what you are doing is going after someone you don't know and wishing horrible things on them. Potato, potahto. |
What horrible things are people wishing on CT in this thread? |
This specific back and forth is related to someone wishing/implying that her husband would/should leave her. |
Read through the thread. |
+1 I completely agree with you. |
Why would he “stand up” against her?! It’s his wife, not some random co worker or friend. It’s the mother of his two kids. |
Duh. I’m not advocating that he should/will. It’s the PP I’m responding to that thinks John is going to publicly speak out against her and will divorce her. Neither will happen. He has known who she is since day 1, and he’s accepted it. |