Mostly true. The white families at EH and JA may not be freaked out, but the Asian and high SES minority families from the feeders certainly are. No denying this. |
I'm swayed by this argument for avoiding DCI (multi-leg, hour-long commute by public transportation). Not swayed for EH, SH or JA when the commute to BASIS is 20 mins by bus or Metro. The IB Ward 6 middle-school parents are spinning/ideological as a group, driven by their politics as much as anything else. I don't blame them but tire of the disingenuous arguments about what drives them. We got sick of them in ES and don't want to be around them for MS. We're hardly alone on that score. |
I am extremely concerned about sending my kids to S-H if we lose out on the lottery. We're IB (and at our IB ES) so we know quite a few kids there now (mostly 6th graders & a few 7th graders). They almost uniformly report that the academics are OK, but that you need to be a blend in/go with the flow kind of kid or have really thick skin to survive. Multiple kids report that the other kids are "mean" and that teachers hear it and don't push back at all. The 7th grader in the family we're closest to told us that he'd heard that it had gotten much worse post-COVID, so that hopefully things improved soon, but that otherwise he thought one of my kids would be fine (sunny disposition but very chill with just a hint of class clown, upper middle of the pack academically), one of my kids would be fine but miserable (leader type but socially adept enough to turn it off as needed & very thick skinned, near the top of the pack academically but not a true standout) and one of my kids would be absolutely tortured (extremely high acheiving nerdy type and sensitive to criticism, but no trouble making friends in ES). A culture of "mean" kids = bad admin, so I'm concerned. |
NP but we struck out in the MS lottery 2x (for 5th and 6th) and so will be going to our IB as there are no other choices. We will fight to make it the best year possible for our rising 6th grader and evaluate how things are going in Nov, which will still give us time to plan for the next school year if need be. |
Teachers don't push back on the rowdy playground either. We routinely see them out there staring into phones while kids slug one another. |
No other choices in the public system? Not Inspired Teaching, CH Montessori or Two Rivers? Your lottery choices were too narrow? You couldn't rent a place in VA? |
Asian AND minority families, you say? |
We are on the WL for every place you listed. It's not hard to find a list of the MS schools in DC, I found them just like you did. |
I'm not sure what this argument is about. If people are staying because they didn't get a lottery spot they liked, they're staying. The "staying" isn't somehow diminished by the fact that they didn't get into Latin ... there's always another option out there somewhere; none of us would be here if we won the lottery. There's nothing disingenous about it. But sure if you're "sick of them" and want to move to the burbs, go ahead! |
DP. At this point, I would put EH either on par or better than those three options. I'm not impressed with Two Rivers academics at all, and nobody has anything great to say about CHM MS either. ITS seems ok but more of a commute, for how much of an improvement over EH? Not to be cynical but a lot will depend on how the EH PARCC scores look this year ... |
I think for ITS vs EH, it really just depends on the kid. ITS is more crunchy and very progressive if you're into that, has things like 8th grade portfolio defense, very small and personalized feel. EH is larger and has more offerings, more variety, more sports and other activities. Academically I don't think there's a huge difference-- either way the number of high-performing kids isn't that big, because ITS is a small school so a smaller number of kids in each performance tier. |
If you're sick of them, like I am, you go charter or private if you don't want to move to the burbs. |
OK, so if you're in the mode of splitting hairs over categorization, where are the non-white UMC families at JA, EH, and SH for that matter? Fact is, there are hardly any, or none, in each case. These schools serve low SES AA and Latino families and UMC whites, and that's it. We're Asian, certainly not "under-served minorities," with "minorities" often serving as shorthand for the former politically. We qualified for free school meals as kids, but, apparently, our families were, nevertheless, not "under-served." The phenomenon of Ward 6 UMC families heading to DCPS middle schools is very much a white-parent phenomenon (without this being acknowledged or discussed). |
You have to get in to those options first. We're another family who didn't get into anything else. |
Ok, good luck to you, then. |