| I know her name. I want her pictures! Anyone ever crack in to see what's there on a page of someone who isn't your friend on FB? |
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If you mean hack into someone's account, of course not. What are you, crazy? You can go to jail for that.
If you mean, set up an anonymous profile and send a friend request in the hopes that she accepts so you can see her vacation swimsuit photos, who hasn't? |
| You want to see the Ow's page? Go work on your marriage. |
| If you can find a mutual friend that you have with this woman it wouldn't be hard to click through that way and see some of her pics. Most people don't keep up with their privacy settings. |
| I wish my husband's mistress had her FB page public. They allegedly are over, but the little bit I've seen that's public shows that she "likes" her church and various religious things. She's so pious! I totally want to tag her in a FB page and out her as the OW, but I won't actually ever do that. I know that this is quite a ridiculous activity, and I have only tried to take a peek once, but I think it's totally normal to wonder about the OW. Healthy, no. |
| Contact FBI. If they can crack iPhone, I am sure they can crack FB. |
If OW didn't want us in their life they should have stayed out of ours. |
| Are you trying to stay with your SO? It's natural to be hostile and curious about the OW. But it also means you're not ready to move on. Your desire to do this will die out when you've healed more. In the mean time, can you do things that nurture your soul? |
They? There's more than one? |
Usually.... PTSD is a bitch... but I am sure they think it is love. |
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There may be other ways to find her pics besides facebook.
What type of photos are you trying to find--pics of HER, or pics she has taken? You can see if she has instagram or Twitter and see if there are photos there. Also, just do a google search and click on "images." |
| Your husband betrayed you and you're focused on the other women? WTF. |
She is usually uglier, at first that is good to see, then you realize your H will bang and desperate whore and then it is even more depressing. |
This is pretty insensitive. This is Someone who had their world turned upside down by their SO, the person who was supposed to love them. I wouldn't cut in line at a grocery store line because its rude, so I think cutting in someone's marriage is very rude. Sorting this out, what it means, getting answers to your questions, getting information, because tons of information was hidden - is a stage people go through. After all, the OW probably looked at OP's FB. I guarantee the OW did this. Let OP go through her stage, she'll get over it. She's not blind that her SO cheated, and I guarantee he's getting an earful too. It's like grief. This is a stage. |
| The only suggestion I have is a fake profile and try to add them. But women are much more discerning with who they'll accept as friends so you might be out of luck. |