Catch a cheater by cracking Facebook

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only suggestion I have is a fake profile and try to add them. But women are much more discerning with who they'll accept as friends so you might be out of luck.

Most people let their friend friend see posts, so you can friend a friend.

[Anonymous]

Most people have a few pictures that are viewable by the public. When my ex got engaged and it popped up on my feed (despite me having hidden him months before), I admit, I clicked on her name to see what she looked like. Kind of wish I hadn't - she is at least 15 years younger than me and super pretty. So you may wish you hadn't snooped, OP.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. I went hunting pictures also. Found out that after I divorced him he started dating a much younger woman. She is in her 20s. I keep telling myself that it is only temporary and that she will tire of him. I figured it would be easier for me to find someone new because it felt like so many guys were interested in me but it hasn't worked out like that. It is kind of depressing but it has given me time to focus more on my career. If I were you I would stay away from hunting pictures. Its better not to know. Sometimes I obsess on what he is doing now and that is no good. It sounds like you are doing the same thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yeah. I went hunting pictures also. Found out that after I divorced him he started dating a much younger woman. She is in her 20s. I keep telling myself that it is only temporary and that she will tire of him. I figured it would be easier for me to find someone new because it felt like so many guys were interested in me but it hasn't worked out like that. It is kind of depressing but it has given me time to focus more on my career. If I were you I would stay away from hunting pictures. Its better not to know. Sometimes I obsess on what he is doing now and that is no good. It sounds like you are doing the same thing.

This is the worst thing to do. Whether you have children together or not I would get him out of my life, yes it's very doable. Put yourself, career and money first. Karma will end up getting cheaters, it usually does.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know her name. I want her pictures! Anyone ever crack in to see what's there on a page of someone who isn't your friend on FB?

She was only part of the problem, just another low life who cheats with married men. As for your husband you should concentrate on divorcing him and making your life better. Put all that energy into improving your life. Happiness is the best revenge, though I've had some friends that ended up giving payback to the cheaters. Some creative funny stuff which I think is ok as long as you are making positive changes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You want to see the Ow's page? Go work on your marriage.

If OW didn't want us in their life they should have stayed out of ours.

You can't be in something you weren't invited into. Talk to your husband. Maybe if you focused on him instead of fb you wouldn't be in this situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You want to see the Ow's page? Go work on your marriage.

If OW didn't want us in their life they should have stayed out of ours.

You can't be in something you weren't invited into. Talk to your husband. Maybe if you focused on him instead of fb you wouldn't be in this situation.

I think coming to my kids soccer game after my husband went no contact would not be considered "invited". Go away! You were just a mistake, and not his biggest.

[Anonymous]

He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

[Anonymous]

Why would she post about your husband on facebook? Affairs are not things people brag about. If you can look
at your husband's phone maybe that would help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

[Anonymous]

Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

You sound a little unstable yourself, sweetheart. At least you know you're your husband's type.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

You sound a little unstable yourself, sweetheart. At least you know you're your husband's type.

Hit too close to home, pathetic ... ad -hominem comments show defeat. Ex-h btw.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He invited her into your lives to begin with. Sounds like an awfully big mistake. How many ons know about children? Never mind soccer teams? Lol Be mad at him.

Please the OW invented stalking

Being angry is a useless emotion. I can hold two adult accountable for trying to ruin my children's life. I can hold my H responsible and The OW.

I can do everything to keep his psycho whore away from my kids. It's hard to do that when you don't know what she looks like. Women are crazy, the best of them.... The ones that lack self confidence and lower themselves to being somebody's side piece take crazy too a whole other level.

Check out this board during thanksgiving and Christmas or in the summer when men are vacationing with their wives and leave the OW behind and don't text them all week. They go bat shit crazy.

When there is an OW a lurking the responsible one needs to keep their kids' lives stable and that means keeping OW away from their children.

Thank god for restraining orders.

Are you the OP or just a bitter scorned woman who has been hijacking the thread?

[Anonymous]

OP, it's probably illegal to hack somebody's Facebook. The best way is to ask your husband or your boyfriend for the pictures of his other woman. I am sure he can help you with it. If he refuses, then you have your answer whose side he is on.