Just told him it's over
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Anonymous
| I'm scared and sad. I so wish this wasn't our reality, but I just don't think we can put this off anymore. |
Anonymous
| How did he take it? |
Anonymous
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Like this. In this order:
Silent treatment Apology Guilt Aggression Bribery Apology Anger Threats |
Anonymous
| Boyfriend or DH? How long were you together? Kids? |
Anonymous
| DH. Kids. Tragic I know. |
Anonymous
| are you okay? |
Anonymous
Are you the dad in the cheaters thread? If so you should be extremely proud of yourself. |
Anonymous
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I'm a DW. The question was is it a bf or DH and are there kids.
I'm not okay, Pp but thank you for asking. |
Anonymous
| I'm sorry, OP. |
Anonymous
Sorry poor comprehension on my part. But I still feel the same I know it's hard, but you should be proud of yourself for ending what seems like a toxic relationship You will get through this. Some days will be hard, very, very hard, but you'll get through this and be stronger. Wishing you and your kids the best. Hugs. |
Anonymous
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OP this was a big step. What do you most need right now? Give yourself that.
Mine will take it likely the same maybe plus some extra agression. I am building courage. So tough but be proud of yourself for doing what so many can't. |
Anonymous
| Thank you all. Really. You're it right now so thanks. I have to process this before I tell people in our world. |
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+1 courage |
Anonymous
Hugs OP. I think you should grab your calendar and pencil in a few fun events. Girls night... picnics... especially things your H wasn't in too. Maybe write yourself a letter commending yourself for doing something that probably needed to be done for a long time. |
Anonymous
| Courage?? For giving up on marriage?? |