Would you invite an ex to your wedding?

[Anonymous]

Why or why not?

[Anonymous]

Nope. It's disrespectful.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the ex, but if things ended amicably and you're friends, it sounds reasonable to me.

[Anonymous]

Would and did. My husband, too. If it was someone who was meaningful in your life and with whom you are still friends, I don't see a problem at all.

[Anonymous]

Two of my exes came to my wedding. I've always had amicable break-ups. My husband and I went to their weddings too. Fifteen years later we still exchange Christmas cards and keep up with each other on social media.

[Anonymous]

We aren't friends with our exes. We broke up for a reason.

[Anonymous]

My Ex was our Officiant. We had been friends my Freshman year. We dated for like a month and decided that we were better friends. He's been my Best Friend for 20 years, oh and now he's Gay.

But an Ex who isn't a friend now, no way.

[Anonymous]

An ex meaning someone who you have had sex with? No.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We aren't friends with our exes. We broke up for a reason.

+1 or 2 if you count DH! However, if I had kids with an ex I'd consider inviting an ex to make the kids happy.

[Anonymous]

Yes I did, plenty of them actually (4 of my exes were at my wedding, add to that 3-4 flirts). They are good friends, people who loved me, like me and wish me the best. They all represent different times of my life and it was wonderful to have them there. I married at 30 and my exes were big witnesses of a full decade between 16 and 27. They provided funny and loving toasts too

[Anonymous]

If you aren't currently friends (not just acquaintances) or if they are single, I would say don't invite. Single people hate weddings, especially weddings for their exes!

[Anonymous]

Possibly if he has moved on. And we shared a good mutual friendship together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes I did, plenty of them actually (4 of my exes were at my wedding, add to that 3-4 flirts). They are good friends, people who loved me, like me and wish me the best. They all represent different times of my life and it was wonderful to have them there. I married at 30 and my exes were big witnesses of a full decade between 16 and 27. They provided funny and loving toasts too

"I was the lucky man who popped LarlaLynn's cherry, but knew even then that this special lady will one day belong to a special man. To this date I cannot eat TART cherries, without thinking of her... ...if you know what I mean! I wish you well LarlaLynn. LarloDylan, you are the special man for this special lady!"

"LarlaLynn is a delightful person who embraces her earthiness. She is the only girl I know, who would not get fazed if a public hair got stuck between her teeth while giving head. She would laugh and say 'It's just a natural dental floss, silly!' . I salute the enthusiastic woman who is always positive and can see the upside of all hairy situations... LarloDylan, you are a lucky man, bro!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes I did, plenty of them actually (4 of my exes were at my wedding, add to that 3-4 flirts). They are good friends, people who loved me, like me and wish me the best. They all represent different times of my life and it was wonderful to have them there. I married at 30 and my exes were big witnesses of a full decade between 16 and 27. They provided funny and loving toasts too

"I was the lucky man who popped LarlaLynn's cherry, but knew even then that this special lady will one day belong to a special man. To this date I cannot eat TART cherries, without thinking of her... ...if you know what I mean! I wish you well LarlaLynn. LarloDylan, you are the special man for this special lady!"

"LarlaLynn is a delightful person who embraces her earthiness. She is the only girl I know, who would not get fazed if a public hair got stuck between her teeth while giving head. She would laugh and say 'It's just a natural dental floss, silly!' . I salute the enthusiastic woman who is always positive and can see the upside of all hairy situations... LarloDylan, you are a lucky man, bro!"

Hee hee

[Anonymous]

I had two ex bf's at my wedding both with their wives and / or partners. one of them was already a great friend of my DH.

Absolutely no biggie.

But we're Europeans and I think less uptight about this kind of thing than most Americans. I'm not being rude, I just think its really the case.