Would you invite an ex to your wedding?

[Anonymous]

One of my exes was one of DH's groomsman. We've all been friends since college.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My Ex was our Officiant. We had been friends my Freshman year. We dated for like a month and decided that we were better friends. He's been my Best Friend for 20 years, oh and now he's Gay.

But an Ex who isn't a friend now, no way.

He was always gay, even if nobody knew it. It's not like Gay is a religion & he converted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why or why not?

I did. He got married first, so I figured it was fine, even though I married his friend!

[Anonymous]

Yes, though he is more of a friendly acquaintance than a friend. DS wanted me to invite him and I didn't mind, although I didn't affirmatively long for him to be there.

[Anonymous]

Dh and I both had exes at our wedding. We send baby gifts and socialize with them too. There's no sexual tension or anything.

[Anonymous]

I did, and he came. DH did, and she was part of the wedding party.

[Anonymous]

I had two exes in my wedding party.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We aren't friends with our exes. We broke up for a reason.

This

[Anonymous]

I did. I recently remarried, and my ex husband and I cooperatively coparent our teenager. He was invited to the wedding, came, and had a good time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dh and I both had exes at our wedding. We send baby gifts and socialize with them too. There's no sexual tension or anything.

Please explain how that is possible? You did bump your uglies together, didn't you?