Dad died three days ago and husband just asked for divorce

[Anonymous]

Just thought I'd make you all feel better about your own relationships. Never thought he could be this cold, but he has proven me wrong.
P.S. More than glad to grant his request at this time.

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry for your loss, and that your husband did that.

[Anonymous]

I'm really sorry OP.

[Anonymous]

Are you the poster whose husband didn't even ask how you were doing while your Dad was in ICU? If so I'm sorry, his coldness knows no bounds. If not, I'm still very sorry for your loss.

[Anonymous]

There isn't a time frame to request a divorce. I think it would be worse to make you feel great and happy and then ask for one

[Anonymous]

No human decency at all.

[Anonymous]

I am so sorry, OP. At least you know for certain that your husband is an ass and there is nothing worth saving. Make individual therapy part of the divorce process.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you the poster whose husband didn't even ask how you were doing while your Dad was in ICU? If so I'm sorry, his coldness knows no bounds. If not, I'm still very sorry for your loss.

Yup. And I agree with you.

[Anonymous]

Holy s*it. At true, true cold hearted ahole.

[Anonymous]

So sorry for your loss OP and the coldness of your future ex-husband. He's a jerk.

My friend's ex did that to her but he asked for a divorce a few hours after her mother passed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just thought I'd make you all feel better about your own relationships. Never thought he could be this cold, but he has proven me wrong.
P.S. More than glad to grant his request at this time.

That's horrible! Was the divorce request out of the blue? Either way, he should of been more sensitive. And if there are kids involved this seems especially insensitive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am so sorry, OP. At least you know for certain that your husband is an ass and there is nothing worth saving. Make individual therapy part of the divorce process.

That is true. He's made it quite easy to move on from him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There isn't a time frame to request a divorce. I think it would be worse to make you feel great and happy and then ask for one

Yes there is. Grief is exhausting. Dealing with the logistics of divorce is exhausting. Asking the OP to deal with both simultaneously is cruel and probably a calculated strategy to keep OP from fighting for her rights in the divorce.

OP, I am so sorry for your loss.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So sorry for your loss OP and the coldness of your future ex-husband. He's a jerk.

My friend's ex did that to her but he asked for a divorce a few hours after her mother passed.

Holy cow, there are two of them??!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you the poster whose husband didn't even ask how you were doing while your Dad was in ICU? If so I'm sorry, his coldness knows no bounds. If not, I'm still very sorry for your loss.

Yup. And I agree with you.

Ugh. I hope all of the 'he just doesn't know how to deal with illness' posters come back and see this. There was no good reason or excuse for his behavior. Now we know why he was really acting that way.