Who initiates call/date?

[Anonymous]

Let's say you meet a guy today...it's an accidental meeting at a store. You have good convo for several minutes. He seems very interested. You exchange numbers.

He texts you later in the day saying it was nice to meet you. You respond in kind.

Now, should he initiate the first official call/request for a date? If so, when? Is it possible that he'd wait for me to call? I hope not. I tend to be pretty traditional, so I much prefer guys who initiate. Is that reasonable?

[Anonymous]

He should definitely make the next move, OP. I think if he wants to see you again, you'll hear from him within the next 2 or 3 days.

[Anonymous]

Well, if you prefer guys who initiate, then let him. If he doesn't, then he's not the type of guy you prefer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He should definitely make the next move, OP. I think if he wants to see you again, you'll hear from him within the next 2 or 3 days.

Great!! Thanks. This is exactly what I'm hoping.

[Anonymous]

Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, if you prefer guys who initiate, then let him. If he doesn't, then he's not the type of guy you prefer.

I would initiate because if a guy can't handle having a woman ask him out, he's not right for me and I'd rather know that now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

OP here.

Any woman can initiate if she wants to. Just as any woman can prefer a man to initiate.

You don't have to live by my own preferences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

He's the man, he should make the first date. No woman wants a baby-man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

He's the man, he should make the first date. No woman wants a baby-man.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

He's the man, he should make the first date. No woman wants a baby-man.

This.

Thank you

If he's interested in you, he will continue the pursuit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

He's the man, he should make the first date. No woman wants a baby-man.

This.

+2. If he's interested and has balls, he will do the asking. If he's interested and won't ask, you don't want him anyways.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

He's the man, he should make the first date. No woman wants a baby-man.

My wife asked me out on our first date. I'm far from a baby man.

Heaven forbid anyone upset the apple cart of women sitting on their asses waiting for me to spend money on them and proposition them for sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

He's the man, he should make the first date. No woman wants a baby-man.

My wife asked me out on our first date. I'm far from a baby man.

Heaven forbid anyone upset the apple cart of women sitting on their asses waiting for me to spend money on them and proposition them for sex.

Well you're married so you aren't available to spend your money on a woman other than your wife at this point so why do you care if someone prefers a traditional set up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, if you prefer guys who initiate, then let him. If he doesn't, then he's not the type of guy you prefer.

Plus a million.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

He's the man, he should make the first date. No woman wants a baby-man.

My wife asked me out on our first date. I'm far from a baby man.

Heaven forbid anyone upset the apple cart of women sitting on their asses waiting for me to spend money on them and proposition them for sex.

In some cases, it works out like that but a majority of women will not initiate and rightfully so. You are the man, the leader, the breadwinner but can't ask out a woman for coffee? That's just not normal.

As my friend says, men can stick their dick in a woman at the drop of a dime yet can't ask them out on a date when fully clothed.