Who initiates call/date?

[Anonymous]

Meeting during the holidays is always a disaster IMO.

I met a woman at a museum last week - we chatted, got her number, talked about our plans for the holidays and whatnot.

I didn't text her till today to ask her on a date (6 days later) because i've been out of town, busy, etc and I didn't want to text her until I knew that I had free time to ask her on a date.

I'm pretty sure she won't respond however as i've left it supposedly 'too late'.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meeting during the holidays is always a disaster IMO.

I met a woman at a museum last week - we chatted, got her number, talked about our plans for the holidays and whatnot.

I didn't text her till today to ask her on a date (6 days later) because i've been out of town, busy, etc and I didn't want to text her until I knew that I had free time to ask her on a date.

I'm pretty sure she won't respond however as i've left it supposedly 'too late'.

OP here:

I think if you were really interested, you'd have made time to ask her out during these six days. That's ridiculous. You're just not into her...IMO, of course.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meeting during the holidays is always a disaster IMO.

I met a woman at a museum last week - we chatted, got her number, talked about our plans for the holidays and whatnot.

I didn't text her till today to ask her on a date (6 days later) because i've been out of town, busy, etc and I didn't want to text her until I knew that I had free time to ask her on a date.

I'm pretty sure she won't respond however as i've left it supposedly 'too late'.

OP here:

I think if you were really interested, you'd have made time to ask her out during these six days. That's ridiculous. You're just not into her...IMO, of course.

PP - I'm interested of course, otherwise I wouldn't have texted or thought of an interesting date that related to what we talked about when we met - just not super into her where i'm blowing up her phone because I don't know her well. I know that she was having family over and was also out of town so I wanted to text when both of us would have a higher chance of being free.

furthermore, i hate small talk via text and didn't want to text her until i had a concrete date proposition.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meeting during the holidays is always a disaster IMO.

I met a woman at a museum last week - we chatted, got her number, talked about our plans for the holidays and whatnot.

I didn't text her till today to ask her on a date (6 days later) because i've been out of town, busy, etc and I didn't want to text her until I knew that I had free time to ask her on a date.

I'm pretty sure she won't respond however as i've left it supposedly 'too late'.

OP here:

I think if you were really interested, you'd have made time to ask her out during these six days. That's ridiculous. You're just not into her...IMO, of course.

PP - I'm interested of course, otherwise I wouldn't have texted or thought of an interesting date that related to what we talked about when we met - just not super into her where i'm blowing up her phone because I don't know her well. I know that she was having family over and was also out of town so I wanted to text when both of us would have a higher chance of being free.

furthermore, i hate small talk via text and didn't want to text her until i had a concrete date proposition.

Well, good luck. Maybe she'll respond.

If not, call me, let's do lunch...

j/k

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meeting during the holidays is always a disaster IMO.

I met a woman at a museum last week - we chatted, got her number, talked about our plans for the holidays and whatnot.

I didn't text her till today to ask her on a date (6 days later) because i've been out of town, busy, etc and I didn't want to text her until I knew that I had free time to ask her on a date.

I'm pretty sure she won't respond however as i've left it supposedly 'too late'.

OP here:

I think if you were really interested, you'd have made time to ask her out during these six days. That's ridiculous. You're just not into her...IMO, of course.

PP - I'm interested of course, otherwise I wouldn't have texted or thought of an interesting date that related to what we talked about when we met - just not super into her where i'm blowing up her phone because I don't know her well. I know that she was having family over and was also out of town so I wanted to text when both of us would have a higher chance of being free.

furthermore, i hate small talk via text and didn't want to text her until i had a concrete date proposition.

Well, good luck. Maybe she'll respond.

If not, call me, let's do lunch...

j/k

Hah - if two dcum posters met up on a date, it would devolve into scrolling through this place on an ipad looking for threads to troll. Or sex within an hour of meeting in a bathroom stall. No other middle ground.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Meeting during the holidays is always a disaster IMO.

I met a woman at a museum last week - we chatted, got her number, talked about our plans for the holidays and whatnot.

I didn't text her till today to ask her on a date (6 days later) because i've been out of town, busy, etc and I didn't want to text her until I knew that I had free time to ask her on a date.

I'm pretty sure she won't respond however as i've left it supposedly 'too late'.

OP here:

I think if you were really interested, you'd have made time to ask her out during these six days. That's ridiculous. You're just not into her...IMO, of course.

PP - I'm interested of course, otherwise I wouldn't have texted or thought of an interesting date that related to what we talked about when we met - just not super into her where i'm blowing up her phone because I don't know her well. I know that she was having family over and was also out of town so I wanted to text when both of us would have a higher chance of being free.

furthermore, i hate small talk via text and didn't want to text her until i had a concrete date proposition.

Well, good luck. Maybe she'll respond.

If not, call me, let's do lunch...

j/k

Hah - if two dcum posters met up on a date, it would devolve into scrolling through this place on an ipad looking for threads to troll. Or sex within an hour of meeting in a bathroom stall. No other middle ground.

Hahaha

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heaven forbid a woman show some initiative

He's the man, he should make the first date. No woman wants a baby-man.

My wife asked me out on our first date. I'm far from a baby man.

Heaven forbid anyone upset the apple cart of women sitting on their asses waiting for me to spend money on them and proposition them for sex.

I asked out my DH first. I had just relocated, got some good news, and bulldozed him into dinner with me to celebrate (we had met 3-4 days before). He said he was planning to wait until the weekend to ask me out but was happy I asked him. He's an officer in the Army, so I'd say not a baby man. Incredibly polite and quite a gentleman though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meeting during the holidays is always a disaster IMO.

I met a woman at a museum last week - we chatted, got her number, talked about our plans for the holidays and whatnot.

I didn't text her till today to ask her on a date (6 days later) because i've been out of town, busy, etc and I didn't want to text her until I knew that I had free time to ask her on a date.

I'm pretty sure she won't respond however as i've left it supposedly 'too late'.

Dude don't listen to entitled, dried up bags in this thread. There's absolutely nothing wrong with six days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meeting during the holidays is always a disaster IMO.

I met a woman at a museum last week - we chatted, got her number, talked about our plans for the holidays and whatnot.

I didn't text her till today to ask her on a date (6 days later) because i've been out of town, busy, etc and I didn't want to text her until I knew that I had free time to ask her on a date.

I'm pretty sure she won't respond however as i've left it supposedly 'too late'.

Given the circumstances, 6 days is fine I think. Especially if she was busy and didn't have time to sit around wondering why you weren't calling.

[Anonymous]

Six days isnt crazy Especially since you reached out with a date plan and not a lame "hi" text