My wife hits me

[Anonymous]

I love my wife but she has a temper. Not abusive I don't think.. But she has moments of rage where she will slap me in the face, throw things,scratch , bite even pull my hair. She says the most hurtful things she knows I'm insecure about. And then she will say sorry and be her normal self.

I'm tired of explaining the marks. And I don't know how to help her.

[Anonymous]

That is abusive. You should be worried about helping yourself, not her.

[Anonymous]

You again?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/493682.page#7444247

[Anonymous]

Honey. Those things ARE abusive. She IS abusing you. You need to file a police report and take pics of your body and get a lawyer to file for divorce. Love shouldn't hurt.

[Anonymous]

That is abuse, OP.

[Anonymous]

That is abuse, OP.

If you love someone, you don't lash out at them - physically or emotionally. I'm sorry for what you have been going through.

Please take care of yourself, keep yourself safe.

Please consider calling the National Domestic Violence hotline to talk to someone (yes, men can be victims of domestic violence too) http://www.thehotline.org/ 1?800?799?7233

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You again?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/493682.page#7444247

+1

[Anonymous]

You're being abused, op. Look up cycle of abuse. The pattern is the same, male or female. This isn't okay.

[Anonymous]

17:40- that sadly is someone else

She isn't abusive type. She is the best thing I have. But I'm worried about her. What will it be like when we have kds? She also screams bloody murder the one time i threathened to involve anyone. And you know what? I'm a much bigger guy than her. Who would believe me? She could cry defensive wounds and I'd be locked up.

I've gotten mad and shaken her to stop but I've never hit he . And I always cry when I do. Its like she wants me to hit her back.I won't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17:40- that sadly is someone else

She isn't abusive type. She is the best thing I have. But I'm worried about her. What will it be like when we have kds? She also screams bloody murder the one time i threathened to involve anyone. And you know what? I'm a much bigger guy than her. Who would believe me? She could cry defensive wounds and I'd be locked up.

I've gotten mad and shaken her to stop but I've never hit he . And I always cry when I do. Its like she wants me to hit her back.I won't.

Dude. Man up. Either hit her back or get out. But stop the whining about how she's the best thing you have. Jesus.

[Anonymous]

If she hits you, she is the abusive type.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17:40- that sadly is someone else

She isn't abusive type. She is the best thing I have. But I'm worried about her. What will it be like when we have kds? She also screams bloody murder the one time i threathened to involve anyone. And you know what? I'm a much bigger guy than her. Who would believe me? She could cry defensive wounds and I'd be locked up.

I've gotten mad and shaken her to stop but I've never hit he . And I always cry when I do. Its like she wants me to hit her back.I won't.

So she's physically, AND emotionally abusive/manipulative?

OP, get out now. Please. And DO NOT have kids with this woman.

Even "nothing" or being single is 100000000x better than this. SO much better to be alone, than abused, manipulated, etc. You can have better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:17:40- that sadly is someone else

She isn't abusive type. She is the best thing I have. But I'm worried about her. What will it be like when we have kds? She also screams bloody murder the one time i threathened to involve anyone. And you know what? I'm a much bigger guy than her. Who would believe me? She could cry defensive wounds and I'd be locked up.

I've gotten mad and shaken her to stop but I've never hit he . And I always cry when I do. Its like she wants me to hit her back.I won't.

Dude. Man up. Either hit her back or get out. But stop the whining about how she's the best thing you have. Jesus.

What a disgustingly unhelpful reply.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:17:40- that sadly is someone else

She isn't abusive type. She is the best thing I have. But I'm worried about her. What will it be like when we have kds? She also screams bloody murder the one time i threathened to involve anyone. And you know what? I'm a much bigger guy than her. Who would believe me? She could cry defensive wounds and I'd be locked up.

I've gotten mad and shaken her to stop but I've never hit he . And I always cry when I do. Its like she wants me to hit her back.I won't.

Dude. Man up. Either hit her back or get out. But stop the whining about how she's the best thing you have. Jesus.

What a disgustingly unhelpful reply.

Dude is trolling. Don't be so gullible.

[Anonymous]

You need a reality check about your abusive wife. She is unstable and you can't help her by yourself.