
Your answer is kind of ironic. ![]() |
You're right. They have no way to know. It's speculation that helps them cope mainly. |
100% - I do hope some of these parents inwardly reflect one day instead of blaming the “non-top” kids who got into [insert top college here] while their “prodigy” was rejected. Given the idiocy being spewed, though, seems unlikely. |
At some point they’ll figure out the top schools, like TJ, are coasting on their reputations and correctly make peace with the reality that Virginia Tech can offer just as good an education as Yale. |
There are many top students. At one particular school, I know of one top student who was accepted and turned it down, but other top students at that school were not accepted. The one who was accepted I would put in the superstar category. Meanwhile at my kids school the superstar was rejected, several a tier below were waitlisted. Other top students were waitlisted in favor of lower caliber students, but I don't consider these a big deal as they were more borderline candidates to begin with. I have no candidates on the waitlist, and really it's not per school acceptance, so even getting the weak candidates to turn it down wouldn't benefit the ones who got rejected(and the superstar isn't even on the waitlist). I have knowledge of the kids from my school who were accepted, and sure I don't know the full profile, but enough to know that A,B,C being accepted while D,E,F,G rejected is a joke. |
I won't go into specifics, but it is the equivalent that the kids DID participate in my child's robotics competition, and it is clear these kids are not that good. Obviously they put something in their essay to stand out, but they are clearly lower caliber. |
Unless you are a teacher or a counselor or extremely creepy to the point of legal consequences, I'm sorry, but no you don't. You just don't. |
Because they were somewhat less good at robotics? Seriously. Get a grip. Your kid might have put something in their essay that made it clear that they either didn't want to go to TJ or don't belong at TJ. Happens all the time and is a great way for kids to subvert their parents' wishes. And you will never know that they did it unless they tell you. |
I also know D, E, F and G personally and can unequivocally state they were far more qualified than A, B or C. |
Parents .. let you kids enjoy high school please. Stop with this unhealthy obsession over getting/not into TJ. |
But you don’t know A, B or C at all!! |
That is a possibility which I find highly unlikely, but of course can't exclude. It would explain a rejection instead of waitlist. My kids are not involved in any of this. Robotics was an analogy, but yes, not just 'somewhat less good' but one of the weakest on the team. |
Ah, but I do. |
It's not about getting in. The point is that TJ is not taking in top students form a school, while Academies of Loudoun is doing a better job of it. Maybe this isn't an issue in Fairfax where 40 kids can get in from a school, though I heard they are still passing on kids who made USAJMO, about ten in the country who do this each year. |
Do they give a breakdown of how many girls are admitted each year?
If the essay matters more, then I would expect more girls to be getting in the past few years. |