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Anonymous wrote:We moved to Montgomery County because of the schools, and now, we are moving out for the exact same reason. MCPS has been deteriorating on so many levels over the last decade. It feels like watching a car wreck in slow motion. Our kids deserve better.
MCPS is one of the 20 largest, most diverse (socioeconomically & ethnically) public school systems in the country. Everyone has a different experience. Too bad it didn't work out for you and your family.
I hope you're going to a smaller, generally all-around wealthy district.
For the record, we have been part of the school system for 10+ years and feel our kids have gotten a very good education and will be better prepared for college that most graduating seniors in the US.
I am asking genuinely, although it may come across as snarky or judgmental. I don't mean it to be. But what type of school are you in, and are your kids neurotypical? Because my son had experience in a Potomac middle school and did wonderfully, but switched to a much more economically diverse high school and it was a complete cluster ****. Kids who wanted to learn, who were set up by supportive, able parents to learn, just could not learn. Too much chaos, disrespect, disruption, and at times violence. I used to think a child could get a good education at any school. With the right approach and supports. But I've changed my mind. I'm just one experience in thousands and thousands. I know.
I just can't believe how bad the high school was. With staff and administration that cared and worked hard. This isn't about the teachers at all. It's the kids and whether they are being set up for success by the county-wide policies in place. I don't think they are.
Not one of the OP's but my kid is in an economically diverse HS and doing fine. Have they had to learn resilience, stick-to-it ness, and what it means to navigate a system? Absolutely. And those are life skills that will do them well.
Take a look a society at large and then take a look at the overall MoCO HS. Most often it's a mirror of society or better. I'm not sure why folks are expecting public school to be this place of nirvana.
My kid has learned resilience too, although it's not really the type I wanted him to learn. And I hope his high school experience does not mirror society.
He was assaulted four times in his freshman year. Assaulted once in sophomore. Got tough, and knows how to play the survival game now. He once said to me, "Mom, it's really weird that I know kids who have killed people." There are gangs in his school. Neighborhood gangs. Not much talk about MS13 or anything like that. But the neighborhood gangs are real. Not at school but two of his classmates were shot and survived (separate incidents). One was shot and killed. Two have been arrested for murder. (All of these have been reported in the local news). One classmate bragged about how his mom and his house got shot up, but the joke was on the shooters, because he and his mom had moved out a couple days before. hahahah. (That was not reported in the news, but I was able to confirm it through other methods.) He knows when someone is carrying a weapon in the school by their body language. By the way the square up for fights. Or don't. He got in trouble with some kids who threated to hurt his parents (me, obviously), which I didn't know until about a year later. But he knew that threat was real.
My son has graduated and I'm so grateful he is no longer in that environment. He is going to Montgomery College, and I hope that is better.