If a guy says he visits Thailand or Colombia

Anonymous
Yes, especially on a repetitive basis.
Anonymous
It is so weird to be offended by prostitution when most of you are okay with premarital sex. Prostitution is not much different than sex in a bf-gf ‘relationship’. Both situations are wrong as all sex outside of marriage is a sin. Please repent and have sex only with your spouse.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It is so weird to be offended by prostitution when most of you are okay with premarital sex. Prostitution is not much different than sex in a bf-gf ‘relationship’. Both situations are wrong as all sex outside of marriage is a sin. Please repent and have sex only with your spouse.


The primary truth in the post above is that either way, the man is paying for it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It is so weird to be offended by prostitution when most of you are okay with premarital sex. Prostitution is not much different than sex in a bf-gf ‘relationship’. Both situations are wrong as all sex outside of marriage is a sin. Please repent and have sex only with your spouse.


LOL
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Anonymous wrote:It is so weird to be offended by prostitution when most of you are okay with premarital sex. Prostitution is not much different than sex in a bf-gf ‘relationship’. Both situations are wrong as all sex outside of marriage is a sin. Please repent and have sex only with your spouse.


The primary truth in the post above is that either way, the man is paying for it.


LOL, usually, but not always

Don't blame a man that enjoys sex and decides to pay for a professional instead of ruining all the virgins he could. Which would you rather ?
Anonymous
Thailand and Colombia are both objectively wonderful counties to visit and travel though. Beautiful landscape. Nice people. Great beaches. Awesome food. Interesting history and culture.

And you are talking about someone who mentioned these locations as aspirational travel, not some 60 year old man going to Phuket four times a year. Honestly, I'd be more likely to drop someone for even questioning why someone would want to travel there someday.
Anonymous
I was in Colombia with my kids staying at a nicer hotel and it was most certainly going on -- creeped me out
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Anonymous wrote:My grandmother who lives in Europe (with lots of direct flights to Thailand) likes to visit there along with her friends. Should we assume my aging granny and her elderly widow friends are sex tourists?


No. Everybody knows old European white women do sex tourism in the Caribbean


Jamaica specifically


They want to get British Broadcasted.


What does that mean?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I may be prejudiced but my nephew actually just returned home from a trip overseas to both Thailand AND Columbia!!
As well as the Philippines too.

He is an avid surfer 🏄🏻‍♂️ + claims he loves to surf in Thailand.
He is married and his wife accompanied him on his trip so not thinking anything nefarious went on……..

Sweet summer child…….


These are all countries with gorgeous beaches that are affordable. Lots of people go to these countries for honeymoons and vacations. If he's going there alone multiple times a year it would maybe raise an eyebrow but once? Completely unbothered especially if he's into watersports, rock climbing or other outdoors stuff there.
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Anonymous wrote:My grandmother who lives in Europe (with lots of direct flights to Thailand) likes to visit there along with her friends. Should we assume my aging granny and her elderly widow friends are sex tourists?


No. Everybody knows old European white women do sex tourism in the Caribbean


Jamaica specifically


They want to get British Broadcasted.


What does that mean?


BBC - Understand now?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:It is so weird to be offended by prostitution when most of you are okay with premarital sex. Prostitution is not much different than sex in a bf-gf ‘relationship’. Both situations are wrong as all sex outside of marriage is a sin. Please repent and have sex only with your spouse.


Said no ever.

Yikes.
Anonymous
Are these the only countries he wants to visit? Does he want you to go with him?

If it’s on a list of like 20 countries he wants to go to, and he wants you/his partner to go with him, that’s different than if he only wants to go to those 2 countries and he wants to go solo.

Since you’re just at the talking stage, might just throw him back. Not worth the risk. There’s millions of other guys out there.
Anonymous
Yes, he's 100% a sex tourist.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Is that a red flag? Wondering because a guy I've been talking to says that he wants to visit these countries and I've also heard of some people in government. I work with who men who I work with, who say that they visited these countries and these countries are just known for their party scene and prostitutes I think. So would it be a red flag for you or has it been a red flag for you?

Thailand has beautiful Ladyboys and Columbia has sexy trans women.
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Anonymous wrote:My grandmother who lives in Europe (with lots of direct flights to Thailand) likes to visit there along with her friends. Should we assume my aging granny and her elderly widow friends are sex tourists?


No. Everybody knows old European white women do sex tourism in the Caribbean


Jamaica specifically


They want to get British Broadcasted.


What does that mean?


BBC is the channel
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