This neighbor doesn't sound like the type who would give OP wine if OP let them use the snowblower. IMO, they sound entitled. |
^ another selfish entitled person who doesn't want to buy their own expensive tools and instead, wants to borrow others. |
LOL +1 that's what OP should've said, "I can't let you borrow the snowblower, but you can borrow our shovels if you'd like." That would've been hilarious. |
My neighbor has a super-duper snowblower, doesn't want anyone to touch it, so he happily does all our sidewalks
He's really nice and his kid is lovely too. Maybe you should learn a lesson from this, OP. |
| I wouldn't loan expensive equipment. No way. We let a neighbor borrow a newish scaffold ladder and it came back covered with paint. We let another use a hedge trimmer and they tried cutting down tree branches with it damaging it. We have a plow and we plow our neighbors driveways. One of them had a gravel portion which we didn't know about since it was covered with s ow so the plow tore it up. He was furious that we caused the damage. He was standing outside when this happened. So I get why people are uncomfortable.oggering to help. Some of them are.jerks. and yes, we gave him money to get more gravel. He was out shoveling yesterday while we plowed e eryone else. |
| An ask is not “insist” but I think that if you are not friends then it was bold of them to ask. |
This storm has been predicted for nearly two weeks. That is plenty of notice to buy a shovel or snowblower, or hire someone. |
^ selfish prick We have our own snowblower and have already helped a few neighbor. |
Not everyone is glued to the weather channel, gramps. |
No, I have never experienced neighbors like you. In my neighborhood, we happily help each other out and lend equipment around. Oh, wait, you meant something different. |
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Neighbors can be tricky.
We used to live in upstate New York and every Spring would rent a wood chipper from United Rentals to clean up a year’s worth of fallen branches and debris. We had to outfit our car with a trailer hitch, pay all the rental and insurance fees, and haul this thing into our backyard. Lots of work and expense. One year one of our neighbors (mid 40s) asked if they could borrow the wood chipper to use on their property. Another year, a different neighbor (mid 60s) asked if we could bring the chipper over to their yard and chop up a bunch of their branches. They actually expected us to do all the work. It’s not like either of our neighbors was ineligible to rent a wood chipper of their own. Just saw an opportunity to bonus off our investment and hard work. Some people are just wired this way, OP. |
. You must be really stupid if that’s the only place this storm was talked about. |
Your situation is a lot more clear-cut. OP's is different. He or she owns the machine, and has been given lots of example in which neighbors help each other out. I agree that the way the neighbors insisted is rude. |
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I shoveled elderly neighbors by hand, and another neighbor did it yesterday by hand.
We’re good neighbors though. You suck. |
| Karma |