Question for divorced people in late 50s and early 60s: how old are the people you date?

[Anonymous]

M. Separated/divorced at 57. Dated women between the ages of 51-57. Long-term relationship started at 59. Remarried at 61 and she was 59; second marriage for both of us. We both lived a very active life, which was a key attraction for both of us. Recently passed five years together.

[Anonymous]

Late 50s divorced woman with one DC who is away at college. I have dated 50-62 M.

Will never again date a man with kids who are not COMPLETELY launched, as in they hold solid jobs that enable them to live independently.

[Anonymous]

60F dating 59M.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please state your age and sex and their age(s) and sex(es).

Not me but friends. They date 18-80s. Depends on if they want fun, marriage, more kids, or someone their age for fun or companionship, or someone older because it's hot or want to remarry if they are a woman.

[Anonymous]

51 F, newly dating/freshly divorced. I wanted to date men who had college age/launched kids, or no kids. I tried a few no kids, and we just didn’t connect. (I think having to put your kids first, helps with really understanding devotion). I am just not that attracted to the 40s guys. They just look like my brothers friends. So, I end up with 60 year old who want to talk retirement. I don’t want to remarry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a 53 year old man in Old Town. I have all my hair, probably a 6 at looks but tall, make $375,000+, own a home, another house in the mountains, debt free, thin, athletic, hobbies- new restaurants, running, camping ,hiking, fishing, travel, etc.

I date- with no intention on marriage- early to mid 30 year old white collar professional women, usually thin, limby and bruenette.

You sound gross.

[Anonymous]

61M dating 62F for 8 years. LAT and it works for us. So far

[Anonymous]

What does LAT mean?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:60 year old man. Women 35-50ish.

Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was once an early 30s professional woman doing a lot of online dating and I’d occasionally come across an older guy like the PP. They were well off, good looking, well dressed and…totally pathetic. I wanted nothing to do with them; eventually married DH (a year younger) after dating a lot of great men my age. Healthy and financially stable young women absolutely don’t want an old guy. Sorry, just the way it is.

+1. maybe 10 years older max. I always dated older in my 20s-30s but not more than 8-9 years. The only two much older ones were real weirdos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What does LAT mean?

living apart together?

[Anonymous]

What does that mean?

[Anonymous]

DCUM is addictive because you can anonymously hash things out with other intellectual moms. Sure, there are trolls (like some of the incel men on the relationship forum), but for the most part, it’s a good community of moms.

Your narcissism shines through every post you make.

It is especially clear when someone calls you out on it because you respond by: 1) calling them an "incel" (even when it is a woman posting), and 2) telling them it is a "community of moms" (even when Jeff has posted many times, the forum has been open to moms and dads since it started) where men should not post.

For example, look at your post where you write you come to DCUM to hash things out with "other intellectual moms." <barf>

The best part? Your ego is so off base, you will spend hours after reading this post trying to defend being an "intellectual mom" on a "mommy board" when you know both are not true.

Seek help. Now. It will be the best Christmas present you will ever give to those forced to spend the holidays with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please state your age and sex and their age(s) and sex(es).

55, F
39, M

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please state your age and sex and their age(s) and sex(es).

55, F
39, M

Love it. Care to share any details?