Quality men in their 50s

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You sound like a misandrist if that is your conclusion. The biggest think that sticks out to me is the percentage of young people that are obese. If you want to see something interesting, look at a chart on obesity by race.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The quality men are probably avoiding women who insist that they use Botox and color their hair.

+1 LOL at OP who thinks "quality" men get botox.

I do. My dermatologist uses Botox and he is handsome, has an income and an amazing wife!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You assume that looks are equally important to women as they are to men. They're not.

In our current era, looks are very important to women for meeting a new partner. (Less for leaving a current spouse).

From getting that initial swipe right on a dating app, to showing off your partner on Instagram.

There are many high profile examples were this is not the case, but I doubt Bill Belichik's life is comparable to the men of DCUM.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You assume that looks are equally important to women as they are to men. They're not.

Looks are equally important to women as they are for men. But women tend to settle for money if they can’t find both looks&money in one person. Then they skip on intimacy with a fat husband using his as a wallet

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You assume that looks are equally important to women as they are to men. They're not.

In our current era, looks are very important to women for meeting a new partner. (Less for leaving a current spouse).

From getting that initial swipe right on a dating app, to showing off your partner on Instagram.

There are many high profile examples were this is not the case, but I doubt Bill Belichik's life is comparable to the men of DCUM.

Nah. It's height, social status, and money. If he's got that but he's overweight but not morbidly obese, women won't care about the weight.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You assume that looks are equally important to women as they are to men. They're not.

Looks are equally important to women as they are for men. But women tend to settle for money if they can’t find both looks&money in one person. Then they skip on intimacy with a fat husband using his as a wallet

Eventually they skip on intimacy no matter what you look like. It's only a matter of time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are being told they age like fine wine and don’t need to do anything to attract women. They are told by the “Mansphere” now that there will be always younger women after them and that new generations of younger men are “soy boys”, so women love middle aged men flabby dad bods and balding hairlines and saggy faces They think they will age like older movie stars and don’t need to look in the mirror. Reality is that middle aged and older movie star men that women find attractive get skilled plastic surgery and expand effort staying fit.

Also all of this assumes people have resources to chase attractiveness and anti-aging. Most people just live day to day grind trying to make it through the workday, traffic, meal prep and tedious household chores, than all draining parts of parenting in the modern world of screens and social media and college prep. It’s a luxury to live a life of self focus for parents.

Men are often being told that they need to do the wrong things, but I don't think it's accurate to say they don't need to do anything to attract women. The manosphere types will tell them that, to attract women, they need to lift weights, dress well, and be aggressive.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You assume that looks are equally important to women as they are to men. They're not.

In our current era, looks are very important to women for meeting a new partner. (Less for leaving a current spouse).

From getting that initial swipe right on a dating app, to showing off your partner on Instagram.

There are many high profile examples were this is not the case, but I doubt Bill Belichik's life is comparable to the men of DCUM.

Nah. It's height, social status, and money. If he's got that but he's overweight but not morbidly obese, women won't care about the weight.

This is BS. Not true at all. I need a slim man to have sex and orgasm if he’s overweight I won’t even touch him with a pole.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You assume that looks are equally important to women as they are to men. They're not.

Looks are equally important to women as they are for men. But women tend to settle for money if they can’t find both looks&money in one person. Then they skip on intimacy with a fat husband using his as a wallet

Eventually they skip on intimacy no matter what you look like. It's only a matter of time.

No there are studies that actually show that overweight spouses have much less sex and way earlier than healthy looking people

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You assume that looks are equally important to women as they are to men. They're not.

In our current era, looks are very important to women for meeting a new partner. (Less for leaving a current spouse).

From getting that initial swipe right on a dating app, to showing off your partner on Instagram.

There are many high profile examples were this is not the case, but I doubt Bill Belichik's life is comparable to the men of DCUM.

Nah. It's height, social status, and money. If he's got that but he's overweight but not morbidly obese, women won't care about the weight.

This is BS. Not true at all. I need a slim man to have sex and orgasm if he’s overweight I won’t even touch him with a pole.

Unfortunately for me, many women are like you. Fortunately for me, more than a few are not.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You assume that looks are equally important to women as they are to men. They're not.

In our current era, looks are very important to women for meeting a new partner. (Less for leaving a current spouse).

From getting that initial swipe right on a dating app, to showing off your partner on Instagram.

There are many high profile examples were this is not the case, but I doubt Bill Belichik's life is comparable to the men of DCUM.

Nah. It's height, social status, and money. If he's got that but he's overweight but not morbidly obese, women won't care about the weight.

This is BS. Not true at all. I need a slim man to have sex and orgasm if he’s overweight I won’t even touch him with a pole.

Unfortunately for me, many women are like you. Fortunately for me, more than a few are not.

I’m sure they are. But it’s best for your own heath to stay fit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like the point about character but I have to admit that sexual chemistry matters. Maybe the right overweight partner would be ok, but it usually doesn't work out.

I prefer people who get along with their ex. "No contact" with ex is often a red flag not a green one.

Why? What’s their fault if their ex husband was abusive? I agree if no contact and you’re talking to a husband. He was probably abusive and ex wife needs to protect herself. No one goes no contact without a reason.

[Anonymous]

I'm the one who made the comment about red flags and green flags. I don't think abused women should stay in contact any more than the minimum necessary to raise healthy children. For women who just didn't get along with their exes or found themselves no longer compatible with them, or even discovered their exes were cheating, I'd make more of an effort, especially if the couple had kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 54 and if I were to enter the dating arena, I would want a man who was natural looking with normal wrinkles, greying or receding hair, and would expect him to have above average body fat like I do and most middle aged people I know.

So long as he engages in good hygiene and wears clean clothes, I'm just not concerned about all the vanity.

What puzzles me is that anybody could reach midlife without having grown to a point where CHARACTER is the first and foremost consideration in a partner.

As a woman I would never being able to orgasm with an overweight partner. I tried. Character won’t help me in bed

I cannot imagine getting into bed with a man without an excellent character at this stage of life. I'm truly puzzled by women who are still chasing dick(s) in their 50s and beyond, it seems very emotionally immature.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

It's pretty similar for women, and across all age groups too:



Source:
https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity

Actually, there are 7% more fat men than women in 40-50s age group. It’s a very significant discrepancy ! No wonder so many women get a divorce in their 40s because they are no longer want to have sex with husbands
No wonder women complain here that men look ugly in 40-50s age bracket.

You assume that looks are equally important to women as they are to men. They're not.

In our current era, looks are very important to women for meeting a new partner. (Less for leaving a current spouse).

From getting that initial swipe right on a dating app, to showing off your partner on Instagram.

There are many high profile examples were this is not the case, but I doubt Bill Belichik's life is comparable to the men of DCUM.

Nah. It's height, social status, and money. If he's got that but he's overweight but not morbidly obese, women won't care about the weight.

This is BS. Not true at all. I need a slim man to have sex and orgasm if he’s overweight I won’t even touch him with a pole.

Nobody is asking you to use a pole. Well, I guess there are probably some pole-freaks out there. But I have to think they are a minority.