Quality men in their 50s

[Anonymous]

Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

[Anonymous]

You expect a man to dye his hair and get botox?

Maybe move to Los Angeles to find people who are as shallow as you?

[Anonymous]

The quality men are probably avoiding women who insist that they use Botox and color their hair.

[Anonymous]

Quality men in their 50s don’t give a f re: what you think about their wrinkles and bellies - they are either in relationships or they have their pick of quality women.

[Anonymous]

OP is gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

Probably because the bolded part. It's a website dedicated to those who have given up and consider themselves "old" and owning it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

Church.

[Anonymous]

I'm here but I don't usually date women who use the phrase "quality men." At least they don't use that phrase with me.

[Anonymous]

I love it, OP. Well done.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

So no fatties?

70.7% of men in the 45-64 age group are considered overweight or obese.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where are these men? Most men on OLD are not that attractive, usually don't take care of themselves, apparently never heard of botox, working out and coloring their hair - and we can tell! Don't they have some well intentioned people in their lives they can trust and who advise them to take care of themselves? What's with all the wrinkles and bellies?

Your issue is in the use of the word “quality”. I’m in my fifties, reasonably fit, trim, naturally have very little gray, plus I’m considerate, respectful, dependable, and successful. (And yes I’m in LA since that was brought up). I’m pretty sure we’ll never match on OLD though. What qualities do you think you’re looking for?

[Anonymous]

Quality men in their 50s are married to the quality women they met in their 20s and 30sand are raising their quality children.

[Anonymous]

I'm 54 and if I were to enter the dating arena, I would want a man who was natural looking with normal wrinkles, greying or receding hair, and would expect him to have above average body fat like I do and most middle aged people I know.

So long as he engages in good hygiene and wears clean clothes, I'm just not concerned about all the vanity.

What puzzles me is that anybody could reach midlife without having grown to a point where CHARACTER is the first and foremost consideration in a partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love it, OP. Well done.

Thanks! )

[Anonymous]

Quality men at that age are usually still married.