Is my bf gay?
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Anonymous
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We were talking about the popes. He said he didn't like the new pope because he is a socialist and he preferred the old one because he had a good fashion sense and wore awesome designer shoes.
... Do straight guys talk like this? |
Anonymous
| straight guys don't talk like that. I can't generalize if gay men talk like that, but in your BF's case, he's fucking out there in weirdo land. |
Anonymous
| Your gay male friends could let you know if BF is gay. |
Anonymous
| sounds like he was making a joke? The red shoes has a history and is fodder for being made fun of (Pope F declined to wear the shoes). If you don't know the context of the shoes you might not get that it's a joke |
Anonymous
| He sounds like a Republican. |
Anonymous
| Is this your BF or a guy you're dating? I would think that you had more than this superficial reason to be suspicious. This sounds like a question one asks of a guy you've just started dating and lack a deep understanding of. |
Anonymous
| Noticing onces shoes does not make one gay. But, hating the pope because he is a socialist -- when the last one was also a economically progressive(most popes are) makes him ignorant. |
Anonymous
| If you have to ask, then there is probably a lot more than one conversation making you worry. And if you have to ask, the answer is very likely yes. Move on. Speaking from experience here. |
Anonymous
Straight men do not talk like this. Hard to say if he is gay. I have a best friend who is male who talks like this, whom I long thought was gay but he really isn't. He is very asexual though, what I call a non-practicing homosexual. That would kill my lady-boner |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| Straight men talk all kinds of different ways just like gay men, and also there are more orientations than just gay and straight. |
Anonymous
| No they don't. |
Anonymous
| If he preferred the previous Pope, he may in fact be a pedophile rather than gay. |
Anonymous
| My straight dh wouldn't even consider that the man wears shoes. He could be barefoot in his lil pope mobile. |