Jon Hamm and longtime girl have split!

[Anonymous]

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3225583/Mad-Men-star-Jon-Hamm-confirms-18-year-relationship-Jennifer-Westfeldt-months-speculation.html

YIKES! NOt surprised at all. Feel really bad for this woman because she wasted her youth and childbearing years with this man in a dead end relationship.

In 2012 she had this to say about their relationship:

'I've thought about this a lot lately. I never thought I’d be this age and not have kids,' she told The New York Times.

'But my life has also gone in a million ways I never anticipated.

'I kept feeling like I'

d wake up with absolute clarity, and I haven't. And we have a pretty great life together. The chance that we'll regret it doesn't seem like a compelling enough reason to do it. I may wake up tomorrow with that lighting bolt, and I'll have to scramble to make it happen.'

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[Anonymous]

Was kids the reason?
Sounds like Jon Hamm was having a midlife crisis with the end of Mad Men and his rehab stint.

[Anonymous]

"It's always on the periphery of the discussion, but we do not have children," the 40-year-old actor told the Hollywood Reporter in an interview published Tuesday. " And I have a tremendous amount of respect for my friends who do balance this particular career with raising a kid, 'cause it's a tricky environment to bring them into... So not for us just yet."

Hamm told Parade magazine last year he was missing "the marriage chip."

"Neither of us have the greatest examples of marriages in our families," he explained. "But Jen is the love of my life, and we've already been together four times longer than my parents were married."

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[Anonymous]

I bet he will have kids in the next year or two. Foolish woman....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I bet he will have kids in the next year or two. Foolish woman....

he will step out with a 25 year old in a month. Put on a ring on it and have a kid in the next year.

[Anonymous]

Why is this so awful? It sounds like she broke up with him.

[Anonymous]

I feel like this thread is a good representation of women hating on other women for not wanting kids. And I say this as a woman who really wanted to be a mom!

I've read those quotes and always felt like she seemed genuine, and was trying to explain her own choices while also trying not to sound too harsh or un-womanly (which is often a real fear for childless by choice women).

If he has kids some day, then he does. That doesn't mean she was foolish or wanted them in the end just because she possesses a vagina. And if she does now or in the future, I feel like an early 40s successful famous woman is a pretty good person to be if you are an older mom!

[Anonymous]

Hammacondia is on the loose !

And I agree. He will be a dad by 2016.

[Anonymous]

It's not a surprise.

All the blinds say he cheated on her all the time.

And I will never forget the story of him beating the ever living shit out of that poor pledge in his fraternity. It was sickening even to read.

He clearly has a very dark side.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is this so awful? It sounds like she broke up with him.

I agree. She's a talented (and very pretty) woman. She's 45. It's not too late for her to become a mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel like this thread is a good representation of women hating on other women for not wanting kids. And I say this as a woman who really wanted to be a mom!

I've read those quotes and always felt like she seemed genuine, and was trying to explain her own choices while also trying not to sound too harsh or un-womanly (which is often a real fear for childless by choice women).

If he has kids some day, then he does. That doesn't mean she was foolish or wanted them in the end just because she possesses a vagina. And if she does now or in the future, I feel like an early 40s successful famous woman is a pretty good person to be if you are an older mom!

She didn't say she did not want kids though. She said she is surprised she is still childless and her hesitance makes sense given the Hamm quotes. He definitely did not want to have children and she it appears hung around in case he changed his mind. She must have low self esteem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Was kids the reason?
Sounds like Jon Hamm was having a midlife crisis with the end of Mad Men and his rehab stint.

This, for sure.

Also his parents died when he was 10 (mother) and then 19 or 20 (father). He does not want to be a parent, he hasn't finished being a kid. And I don't mean that with cruelty, Guy Pearce is the same way. Actively chosen not to have kids.

Different people, different lives.

[Anonymous]

Why on earth would anyone want to have kids with an addict???

She's better off without him.

Sure, he might knock up a much younger girl in the next few years, but he isn't capable of having a happy family life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like this thread is a good representation of women hating on other women for not wanting kids. And I say this as a woman who really wanted to be a mom!

I've read those quotes and always felt like she seemed genuine, and was trying to explain her own choices while also trying not to sound too harsh or un-womanly (which is often a real fear for childless by choice women).

If he has kids some day, then he does. That doesn't mean she was foolish or wanted them in the end just because she possesses a vagina. And if she does now or in the future, I feel like an early 40s successful famous woman is a pretty good person to be if you are an older mom!

She didn't say she did not want kids though. She said she is surprised she is still childless and her hesitance makes sense given the Hamm quotes. He definitely did not want to have children and she it appears hung around in case he changed his mind. She must have low self esteem.

x2. Original PP you completely missed the point. No one is wringing their hands over Cameron Diaz, say- who has always said she doesn't want kids. This is someone who said she "couldn't believe" she hadn't had children yet, and presumably did it for the sake of her partner who has been very open about not wanting kids.

And now the relationship is over.

That's what people are discussing.

[Anonymous]

She seems like a very elegant, classy and a really pretty woman. So surprised she stuck by him without a ring or a baby for so long! Wtf??