If your friends underage daughter confided she was romantically involved with a 22 years old...

[Anonymous]

Would you tell the mom if she begged you not to?

[Anonymous]

If the guy is a college student and a good kid and the girl is 17, then no. If she's younger than that or if the guy sounds like a loser, then yes.

[Anonymous]

Depends how old and how mature she was.

[Anonymous]

15 years old. He tried to offer her pot. I'm not personally involved in this, just watching a fb thread and curious what dc people would do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the guy is a college student and a good kid and the girl is 17, then no. If she's younger than that or if the guy sounds like a loser, then yes.

The odds that you know the truth and reality about this are slim.

Yes, OP, I would tell my friend but I would tell the daughter first. And I would find out why she is so adamant about her mother not finding out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you tell the mom if she begged you not to?

Yes I would.

[Anonymous]

A huge number of single teenage mothers are knocked up by guys over 22. The guy is a predator. He's a loser for dating an underage girl. It's sex abuse. Many of these relationships end up violent.

You have to tell her mother. If the mother doesn't do anything, you need to call the cops. They may or may not do anything, but you have to do your part. Respecting her wishes went right out the window when she revealed that she was involved with a guy old enough to be a college graduate.

Once upon a time, I failed to report something like this. The girl was 17. Her boyfriend put her in the hospital when she tried to break up with him. Guys who are more than 5 years older than their underage girlfriend have something seriously wrong with them. They are dating kids because they can control and abuse kids. I will never fail to throw a fit if I see something like it again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:15 years old. He tried to offer her pot. I'm not personally involved in this, just watching a fb thread and curious what dc people would do.

I would definitely tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:15 years old. He tried to offer her pot. I'm not personally involved in this, just watching a fb thread and curious what dc people would do.

No question I would tell. Also if the parents didn't give a crap I'd call authorities. I don't care how much of a bitch that made me.

[Anonymous]

Why did she tell you this?

I would try talking to her first, tell her what he is doing is illegal and he could get into a lot of trouble, like prison time, and being labeled a sex predator for the rest of his life. It could ruin him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:15 years old. He tried to offer her pot. I'm not personally involved in this, just watching a fb thread and curious what dc people would do.

OP, let me get this straight. You're talking about a 15 year old child who is being offered pot - and no doubt much more - by a 22 year old man?

Are you out of your mind? OF COURSE you tell her mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:15 years old. He tried to offer her pot. I'm not personally involved in this, just watching a fb thread and curious what dc people would do.

I would definitely tell.

Yes. A friend in h.s. started "dating" her 24 year neighbor when she was about this age. She was pregnant by graduation and he dumped her well b/f the baby was born.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why did she tell you this?

I would try talking to her first, tell her what he is doing is illegal and he could get into a lot of trouble, like prison time, and being labeled a sex predator for the rest of his life. It could ruin him.

You are seriously suggesting that OP talk to the 15 year old girl and tell her that she is respsonible for keeping her sexual predator out of trouble with the law?!?!1

What the fuck is wrong with you? She is 15. He is a grown man who is preying on a 15 year old. He is using pot to try to lure her. His ass belongs in prison.

The kid is not responsible for keeping that freak out of prison. She is a victim. She is not responsible for any of this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why did she tell you this?

I would try talking to her first, tell her [b]what he is doing is illegal and he could get into a lot of trouble, like prison time, and being labeled a sex predator for the rest of his life. It could ruin him.[/b]

You are seriously suggesting that OP talk to the 15 year old girl and tell her that she is respsonible for keeping her sexual predator out of trouble with the law?!?!1

What the fuck is wrong with you? She is 15. He is a grown man who is preying on a 15 year old. He is using pot to try to lure her. His ass belongs in prison.

The kid is not responsible for keeping that freak out of prison. She is a victim. She is not responsible for any of this.

read the bolded on my post. I said "what he is doing". I place the blame on him. The reason I said to talk to her is because she probably "loves" him and doesn't want to see him get into trouble, so maybe she'd stop seeing him. This was a way to not break her trust by telling the mom and at the same time, get her to stop seeing the guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why did she tell you this?

I would try talking to her first, tell her what he is doing is illegal and he could get into a lot of trouble, like prison time, and being labeled a sex predator for the rest of his life. It could ruin him.

A grown ass man giving pot to and being romantically involved with a 15 year old should be ruined. He deserves prison and he is a sex offender.