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This isn’t true, this is “made up parade of horribles.” The vast majority quit at 12/13. So if you’re a parent of an 8-10 year old who was told they suck over and over again from 8-10, you have a parenting problem, not a “US Soccer” problem, you have a club and coach problem, not a “US Soccer” problem. Where is the personal accountability? This strikes me as the same mindset as the Bethesda parents who are just all in a tizzy because their 15 year old isn’t getting Lamine skills from their 1.5hour 3x a week team practice. |
If these are all coming from USYS, why is Maryland the only one that says “Starting in the fall of 2026, members and leagues will have reasonable flexibility to choose the best registration option for their participants.“ Michigan and Missouri didn’t have that |
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The five stages of grief are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance:
Denial: An early stage where someone might say "BY won't affect us" Anger: Someone might feel angry because BY won't let them play down for wins Bargaining: Someone might feel helpless and try to gain a sense of control by focusing on their regrets or personal faults Depression: A stage of grief Acceptance: A stage where someone realizes BY is happening and tries to figure out how to move forward Which stage are all the nutballs holding onto spelling errors as the reason why SY isn't happening. Hahahahahaha... Free entertainment |
You’ve created the Cliff Notes for pages 300-999 for this thread. |
| Or.... the source should be the top not the bottom. |
Not PP, but the logic you’re proposing is actually sound. The reason football doesn’t do this has nothing to do with an inability to learn space and soccer iq, and more to do with maximizing touches and technique. |
I do think it makes sense that those players SHOULD be able to play together (they will in HS, btw, currently). After all, they are the same age. An arbitrary rule keeps them apart. BUT should an arbitrary rule FORCE them to play together? That doesn't make sense either, especially when dealing with players in the CURRENT system. Yes, I'm arguing experience matters AND not just 11v11. The Dec. 31 2011 player, likely had another full season before the Jan. 1, 2012 player. It matters to those players and families, especially if they are now on a top team and in a top league (despite all those who follow your shenanigan examples to improve themselves outside the normal pathway). They, especially since they are smaller than their 2011 peers, have earned their place (hello, national league motto). I've heard their frustration just at the possibility of what to them would be an arbitrary rule change that would basically lead them to leave their current team (who they have played with for years) for one with players with likely less experience. There are going to be told -- hey, here's your chance to shine as a leader with your grade -- except we live in a soccer culture where to get anywhere, you need to play UP and EARLIER (if you can either through ability OR political connection). It's so ironic that this change is being heralded to improve player development -- but it WILL come at the expense of the development of some players in the current system. That's why the change should be with the players and families in minds and done slowly over the course of age groups and years, and not quickly so some huge profit-making club so they can use this to get a leg up on the competition. |
If I was a coach, I would want to say that RAE in soccer is created by parents but wouldn't say it because I don't think anybody would be stupid enough to believe it. |
The stats speak for themselves. I have 1 late birthday on my team. Looking at the rosters 90% of the top 2 teams for each age group is Q1Q2 birthdays. Sorry, RAE is real- your kid is not good- just older than their competition. Put them in a group with kids just 5 months older...and they can no longer compete. |
You are all over the place here. So RAE is a parent problem? I am pretty sure is just a result of choosing one date to cutoff over another. As to training- yes kids should be training outside of practice. Most of the early birthdays don’t practice extra/ they rely on being older- stronger/ faster. That’s why they lack the technical ability and would get knocked off the team if it goes to SY..which is evidently why you are so concerned. |
| Not to encourage this roller coaster ride but: https://files.constantcontact.com/faa620c7001/8f1d1a6f-efec-4134-872d-4e995450d16c.pdf?rdr=true |
This is the first thing posted here that seems legit. Sounds like utter chaos and further fragmentation. Well done, US Soccer! |
Also sounds to me like ECNL got what they wanted? Permission to make their change in a year. |
So, in light of the joint statement, looks like AYSO/USCS/USYS will be SY Fall 26. MLS likely the hold out to remain BY. All eyes on GA. |
| Which = further fragmentation left to soccer bureaucrats in all 50 states + different leagues + club directors + crazy parents + more money required to play in all these satisfying options |