Have you ever been mistaken as your child's nanny?

Anonymous
I have and it was so strange. I guess it had to do wih looking like a youngish parent for this area and the fact that my kid is mixed and I'm not. Has his happened to you?
Anonymous
My nanny gets complimented on how cute her (my) baby is whenever they go out. Not the same, I know.
Anonymous
It was assumed I was babysitting often. I'm half latino and in the summer I get pretty dark, and I was a teen mom.
Anonymous
Yep! Same situation. "Younger" mom, mixed kid. I chose to believe it was definitely because I looked too young to have a baby and not that my baby didn't look related to me. (I'm 29 btw, so really only "young" by crazy DC standards.)
Anonymous
Yes. I don't know if I was doing a better or worse job than they would expect. 2/3 times it was a nanny assuming I wasn't the mother.
Anonymous
Every day of my life. I have darker skin than my children so its assumed often.
Anonymous
I do all the time. I think it is a combo of me looking young (and starting young) to have teens and lots of au pairs around. Nothing to do with skin color.
Anonymous
I'm a younger mom and have two mixed kids (I'm white). I've never been mistaken for the nanny.
Anonymous
Granny, yes; nanny, no.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yep! Same situation. "Younger" mom, mixed kid. I chose to believe it was definitely because I looked too young to have a baby and not that my baby didn't look related to me. (I'm 29 btw, so really only "young" by crazy DC standards.)


Op here. Same age! I agree it's not young at all compared to most of the country.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm a younger mom and have two mixed kids (I'm white). I've never been mistaken for the nanny.


Do you live close-in or far out?
Anonymous
Yep. I look latina and I'm youngish (29). My son is very fair skinned and blonde. I was actually blonde too when I was a baby but strangers don't know that!
Anonymous
2 times. NeighbOr came to introduce herself and when I answered the door asked if I lived there. She assumed I was a nanny. I look Latina though I am not. Second time with baby number Two who somehow turned out to be blind and fair. When I corrected the person and told her hat I am his mom she said " why is he so fair?"
Anonymous
I am pp my baby is Blond not blind!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am pp my baby is Blond not blind!


Thank goodness! Lol
post reply Forum Index » Infants, Toddlers, & Preschoolers
Message Quick Reply
Go to: