Mother in law wants to go with us to the Caribbean

Anonymous
She just asked earlier if she could also come to the islands with us for our honeymoon. I entertained the idea for a little bit until she said that she wants to be in the same hotel suite as U.S. At this point I'm feeling like I don't even want to go. She is wonderful but I think she is overstepping here. How should we handle?
Anonymous
Okay troll, you get 3/10 points for mild creativity. Move along.
Anonymous
Cool story, bro.
Anonymous
you lost me at " same hotel suite as us" bye bye!
Anonymous
She wants a different room but in the same suite if that makes sense. DF is really not into it but he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. She has been clingy since being widowed.
Anonymous
Will she be appalled/offended that you're having sex or is she the MIL who is so eager for grandchildren that she'll heat up the genital massage oil?
Anonymous
Not op but stranger things have happened.
my cousin married a first gen immigrant and for their honeymoon they made their way with a few stops along the way to his family's home country to stay in their villa. Guess who was waiting for the newlyweds upon their arrival? Surprise!! Mommy is here! Of course, the house was hers so it was really awkward, nit what my cousin had in mind. True story.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She wants a different room but in the same suite if that makes sense. DF is really not into it but he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. She has been clingy since being widowed.



No no no. Cant she find a friend or relative to take a trip with? Honeymoons, by definition, should only include two people.
Anonymous
This is a joke, right??? Honeymoon = trip for married couple to be together. Have your husband tell her NO. Plan another trip with her at a different time to soften the blow.
Anonymous
i don't believe this is a troll. CLEARLY not as egregious as your honeymoon(omg) but MIL asked if she could come with us to a wedding out of the country. A wedding where she didn't know the bride or groom. We were making a long weekend out of it. She said she would stay in the hotel during the wedding events. Ridiculous...
Anonymous
ON YOUR HONEYMOON? No. "MIL, we would love to take a vacation together as a family at another time. We want our honeymoon to be a special romantic bonding time for us as a newly married couple. I hope you understand."
Anonymous
I want to go to, too. I can just sleep on the couch. Cool?
Anonymous
I want to go too but I want the big bed and the room to myself.
Anonymous
My soon to be sister-in-law tried to come on my honeymoon. Some people simple have severe boundary issues. From my experience, they don't get better...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My soon to be sister-in-law tried to come on my honeymoon. Some people simple have severe boundary issues. From my experience, they don't get better...


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