DP. You don't sound any different than OP. All of you are so...mean and defensive. If your child is not "elbowy", why would you feel compelled to write such a defensive post? Elbowy, indeed. |
“I am desperate to hire a computer scientist from Brown” said no one ever. Yes definitely go to Dartmouth over MIT, very smart advice. |
Looks like you are one of the few who said no https://www.gradreports.com/best-colleges/computer-science |
I'm making margaritas with all the salt in this thread. |
Yes I definitely believe this chart that ranks Brown CS over both Stanford and MIT. |
It is based on salary. Brown sends a lot of kids to consulting, banking, hedge funds, etc...more than you might think. The CS kids are highly recruited for those jobs. I think Brown has a much lower %age of CS kids that actually work in tech vs. Stanford and MIT. |
This is a fact. If you come from money it does not matter if you go to Virginia Tech or Columbia. Rich kids get hooked up. It just happens that there are more rich kids per capita at Columbia than VT. My kids go/went to such a school and starting in high school they got excellent internships along side college kids. It was all becuase mom and dad got their foot in the door. |
DP. This didn’t strike me at all as defensive or “elbowy”. I read it as a reminder that the PP’s sweeping generalization about kids at “elite” colleges does not apply to all. (Sweeping generalizations rarely do … and sometimes they even miss the mark completely.) |
WRONG. I work in tech and that would be a colossal waste of money. where you went to "study" CS is probably one of the least important criteria in an interview process where you have on-site in person coding tests. If you can get past that we do not give AF where you went to college or even if you went to college. Nobody is like "oh wow, lets check out this SWE from Brown" No. Ivy league is GREAT if you want to go into law, politics, or high finance. |
Becoming a doctor is very different than becoming an attorney. Usually someone is drawn specifically to one of them. Doctors do important work and have to be highly intelligent and have an excellent work ethic. There are more attorneys than there are jobs. The median income for attorneys is about $120,000. If you were meant to be a doctor you probably would have chosen the cheaper one. Students knowing exactly what they want to do won’t necessarily need the elite school. |
It is overrated when psycho tiger mom strivers living their teens scam them into a college they don't belong in. I know parents whose control their teen's email account, social media, LinkedIn, wrote all of their Common App essays, force them to do summer programs, fake founder of a nonprofit, the whole nine. If your kid doesn't have a hyper competitive bone in their body, why curate this fake hypercompetitive bio and con them into a hypercompetitive college? They feel like dummies on campus because they are the dullest most noncompetitive students there. |
You're uninformed. Brown's computer science graphics program is very famous. A bunch of grads were founders of a little company called "Pixar" you may have heard of. "Andy" in toy story was named after legendary Brown CS professor Andy VanDam by his students (you can see the textbook he wrote on a shelf in the film) and Brown CS grads do great in the field, especially in the highly competitive fields of graphics and animation. So you're completely wrong. Maybe stop posting? https://www.brown.edu/news/2021-10-05/vandam https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andries_van_Dam |
My kid got into these schools on his own. No private counselor. No fake narratives. No fake non-profits. No tiger mom or tiger dad. I am impressed with him for the outcomes he is having this cycle which appear to be merit-based (no hooks at all) and on the personality he conveyed and hard work he alone put into essays/supplementals. In fact, my spouse and I are shocked he's been getting into these 5-6% acceptance rate schools when the tiger parents were going on about how impossible admissions were. |
Agree with PP - the way elite colleges are obsessed over here is insanity and bashing the OP doesn't say about the PP's what they think it does... |
Agree! Mine did it with no private counselor nor fake narratives, just pure smarts, high scores, true intellectual curiosity and love of all hard subjects. Both at top-10 USnews "elite" schools (one ivy, one non) and loving it, love the challenging classes, getting to know incredibly talented profs, and being surrounded by other highly intelligent peers. They fit in better than they did in their competitive private school , because now the vast majority is the same level of intellect and they all push each other. I went to an elite. It was life-changing as a high-financial-need white kid from an average urban public. The kids who bottom out and hate elites were likely over-prepared by parents doing too much for them in high school, or got in on a major hook and not actually ready for the intense academics. My elite was a pipeline to top 50 med and T14 law schools, and high-paying industries, as are my kids' elites. |