Kate’s family is wealthy and aristocracy. And she was the prettiest girl at their college. Is your son or daughter going to be the most attractive coed at an Ivy? No. |
UPS drivers make around 100k just saying.. |
Idiot. That's one particular UPS driver. Not typical. |
We are lucky I can afford to gift my kids a college education. My DD is going to a selective school. It’s not about ROI but learning how to think critically, learn to learn, grow, all that jazz. If she ends up in a $150k job out of school, I would be super surprised - that is not the type of kid she is. She may never be a high earner. But she will have an impact over her lifetime. That I can feel in my bones. |
Thanks for your post. We nervous DCUM parents need to hear this. |
Major is more important, the best combo would be ivy League and computer science |
You need to leave your bubble once in a while. |
Literally the exact same internship and job offers you’d have as a CS major at VT or UMD. |
Don't be so nervous. I have a kid about to graduate college - (high school class of 2020) - he has friends at a wide range of colleges. The ones already with the secure over 100K jobs are coming from UMD, Indiana, Wisconsin and Lehigh. Graduate school of some sort for most of the LACs and some Ivys, unknown for many of the kids, but it's really not apparent that the Ivy kids or "best" schools are really giving off better results, especially in year 1. Many kids also took class of 2020 covid gap years and he has many friends that are either juniors in college or else taking closer to 5 years to graduate (most of the 4+ year graduates are from big OOS schools-- too hard to graduate in 4 years at those places). In any event, success appears to be more tightly tied to major (all 100K jobs in engineering or finance) than the ranking of the schools. I'm sure Ivy kids are doing well and many have secure jobs lined up, but I don't know any of them and plenty of others are doing well. |
The school + career path + kids’ drive, ambition; For Quants in finance career, a fresh graduate can earn $300k or more per year, but you have to go to top CS schools or the very top schools: MHPS, UChicago, Columbia and a few more second tier schools (including Yale) for this niche but super IQ area. Even Dartmouth/Brown students do not have much of a chance. No pipeline. |
No aristocracy. Strictly working class. |
+1000 This is how my middle class parents looked at it in the late 80s, and they were 100% correct. My college experience broadened my thinking and my worldview in endless ways, both big and small. Also, I learned and connected with brilliant and caring classmates and friends, many of whom are still dear to me 30 years later. Could I have had this experience at a less selective/elite school? Probably. Because that’s who I was for those for years of my life. It wasn’t always easy, but I was very motivated to get outside my comfort zone and take some risks - with both my academic interests and in substantive conversations with classmates (and, to a lesser extent, professors.) To me, that’s what the college experience is all about - exposure to new people and ideas, challenges both academically and socially, and the space to absorb and reflect on it from time to time as you grow. (My journals from those four years are epic - and hilarious to look back on now.) And yes, my career has been fruitful and fulfilling, for sure! But for me, it was never about making the most money possible in my first job out of college. I needed to support myself, of course, and I did! But my career and earnings were things that evolved over time, no doubt propelled by phenomenal college education. You do you, OP. Given your POV and values, I can see why you’re disappointed. And I’m sorry - it’s a lot of money to spend on something that is a poor fit for your goals. But these rigorous schools do offer a ton of value to certain types of students. Perhaps your DC can transfer to a school that is a better match for your goals? |
This is a cope. Or maybe you’re just too dim to understand per capita. On average, kids graduating from elite colleges are far more likely to be making big bucks right after college or off to prestigious grad programs which will net big bucks. |
Was Dr. Gay your president?
My children found Elite College status to be wonderful and door opening! Does the “removal” of Dr. Gay have to be considered a political issue? Why would Dr. Gay leave, if President Obama has had her back? |
Yep - you are right - on average/per capita. But that's just an average and there are plenty of kids doing well from other universities. Look around at your friends - are they the ones with the best undergraduate degrees? |