You're asking the impossible. I don't know of anyone who's able to manage after school plans without phone access during the day. Even my parents were able to coordinate with my grandparents during the day when they were in high school. |
Sounds like we need to bring back the ole payphone. That’s the difference in this situation. |
Sometimes things come up at times when a student may not be able to plan that far in advance. For example, if my child has trouble with homework over the weekend on an assignment they received on Friday afternoon that is due Tuesday, they will need to meet with their teacher on Monday. They contact the teacher over the weekend to arrange a time — whether it be during advisory, lunch, or after school — but if the teacher doesn’t respond until Monday, then my child may not know when they are able to meet until that day. My child is also on a 504 and sometimes stays after school the same day as class to finish an assignment. I support no phones in class, but not the banning of phones overall. My work is very close tot he school, so it’s easy for me to pick him up if he needs to be; however, the traffic is terrible going to the school from my house, so I would rather know before I get home whether they need to be picked up. |
| Is there a reason he can’t go to the front office and call you or have his teacher reach out as they did prior to cell phones? |
Talking to people is hard, Barbie |
That’s a complete waste of time and resources. So you expect him to miss class to go to the front office to use the phone? My kid doesn’t want the whole office knowing his business so doesn’t want to talk on the phone in front of anyone. Expecting the teacher to reach out? Wtf? No, the kid can simply send a text during lunch. Looks like we will also have to get this added to our existing 504. Sigh. |
You want cell phone use to be added to a 504? Unless the phone is being used as a medical device (such as for a CGM), there's a snowball's chance in hell a school is going to add use of a cell phone as an accommodation. Please explain how use of a phone to contact Mommy is an educational accommodation. How it necessary for your child to access the curriculum? Poor organization of the parents, such as not coordinating after-school plans ahead of time, does not warrant a 504 accommodation at school. |
By the way, the reason I am so passionate about this is because I have a child with a 504 plan who requires actual accommodations to access the curriculum, and because of BS accommodations being added by other parents, it is very difficult to get educators to take my child's 504 plan seriously. Adding a cell phone "accommodation" in the absence of a medical need, is absurd. |
Just use email. Your kids can make a personal email address and email you from their computer. |
My kids don't need to text or email me during the day. We have been teaching our kids organizational skills, natural consequences, and responsibility since they were toddlers, so it wouldn't even cross their minds to contact me during school unless they were sick or injured ( in which case, the clinic or front office would contact me). Lack of planning ahead and communicating plans means those plans do not get approved. Natural consequences. |
+1 |
| Apple Watch solves the problem |
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Good grief. I don't think I ever used the pay phone at my high school--long, long ago.
We set things up ahead of time. |
Those are banned too now. You can’t wear them at school. |
+1 |