DP, and different doc.
I grew up in a converted summer cabin with a rotting floor and an outhouse. I can guarantee I've worked worse jobs than you, including janitorial staff, to get through school on scholarship. |
Sorry, PP. But I worked for 5 years before I started med school. And yet, ask me what my debt was exiting training. It's ok, I tried. The point of my post was to remind frustrated patients why your bills are exorbitant and your docs are unavailable. Systems don't change unless people understand the corporate wheel spinning merrily in the background making it all run. And I bet you do work hard. I do too. Almost all of us do. Isn't it remarkable how effective it is keeping docs and patients at each other's throats. |
More likely that even people trained with the expectation that they would be at the top of a hospital-based hierarchy recognize that saying “I expected to be treated like a God” is a bit outré. You can smell the dejection about it not happening coming off some of them, though. Sometimes it’s mixed in with other odors, and sometimes it isn’t. |
I want them to read my chart before I walk in. Every doctor I’ve seen in the last year has repeatedly asked me the same questions that just glancing at my chart would have answered. This includes my OB who I was seeing every single week. I was asked every week if this was my first child (no) and then at my six week follow up the doctor started talking about what to look out for since I had preeclampsia. I didn’t have preeclampsia. My PCP keeps asking if this is the first time I’ve seen her. Literally just glance at my chart? It’s insane and if I didn’t prep for anything at work I’d lose my job. I make about a tenth of what she makes. |
névrose obsessionnelle |
Competency and a willingness to work for a fair salary. |
Same. Also, when a consulting doctor adds tests to a patient’s file, read them before you walk in and don’t lie about them. |
So what? She had years and years of training. Med school, residency, possibly fellowship. Likely has 6 figures in loans to pay back. She is undoubtedly more highly trained than you are. You are paying for that. For her expertise. |
Stay out of the drs. office to the best of your ability. Take care of yourself. |
Yes. Everyone agrees that if you do not have good reason to go to a doctor's office, you should not be there. |
Yeah, I don't want much from "doctors" in this country. They forget they're practicing the art of medicine and think they're scientists with hard facts. It's a sh*tsh0w, for sure. And then the egos on top? Ugh. Best to avoid. |
Hey, I'm the doc who was writing about just doing a 20 and 30 minute phone calls to go over labs, answer questions, etc. Not really anything has a chance to get backed up on portal. ![]() |
Stop taking all this charting that no one reads. Change state laws so that so many simple medical visits do not need a doctor. ADHD meds, anxiety, colds, vaccinations do not require a doctor. Most doctors waste their time and my time. Very rarely as a young person have I needed expertise. |
Doctors on Demand/Teledoc for simple stuff and meds, and your local pharmacy for vaccines. It all works great and not expensive. |
It's interesting that you believe anyone on an anon forum is who/what they say they are. Doctors having huge egos/god complexes is a known trope for a reason. If that hasn't been your experience, lucky you, and I hope that continues in your favor. Either that, or you're a doctor, and can't see yourself without the mirror that's being held up for you, and you're calling it "projection" to avoid confronting the possibility that it's true, and you do see yourself as better than. |